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Archived questions from: 15 May, 2018 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I playing myself for a fool with this older guy?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2368 days ago

15 May 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 8 years older than me. I met him in early February while he was non exclusively dating a 21 year old .I met him in a little store near my house and one thing Led to another and now we are a couple. When i first initially met him he told me about the 21 year old ... (1174 words)

Do I give my ex with a drinking problem a second chance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2380 days ago

15 May 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - Do I give my ex with a drinking problem a second chance? I had been with my boyfriend for about 11 months now and I recently decided to end our relationship because of his drinking habit. I wasn't happy about his drinking early on but I think at first I was alw... (576 words)

Is serial grumpiness a warning sign or just a stress reliever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2380 days ago

15 May 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - This is probably going to be a long one. Past: Was with my teenage sweetheart. Dated at 15, engaged at 20, moved abroad for originally 2 years...he failed at his exams and so i said i'd stay 1 more year since he had to study alot and he was ok with that...we broke up a year ... (668 words)

I wish he would look at me and see I'm drowning, instead of calling me lazy, or belittling my parenting, cooking, whatever.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2380 days ago

15 May 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a laundry list of concerns that I have really no one to turn to with. So I moved across the country to be with my bf and so our family could be together. 2 and a half yrs and 2 babies later, I'm unhappy. It hurts to admit. I have a roof over my head, 3 beautifu... (364 words)

How do I work on this trust issue and two, should I be with someone who is a diamond in the rough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2380 days ago

15 May 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, After years of not feeling much for the opposite sex after a long, miserable marriage, someone I met as a child courted me for a few months before I agreed to meet up. I was almost convinced I'd never fall in love again It was an instant, intense connection. The firs... (377 words)

I am upset at how he dealt with Mother’s Day! What would you do in my shoes?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2380 days ago

15 May 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. My bf and I are 35, cohabitating. We have kids but not with each other although I am quite close with his. I was really upset on mother’s day because I woke up to an empty, messy house but a gift and cards left out. Apparently he thought the kids shouldn’t miss practice ... (217 words)

Does he love me? Or not? Is he worth the wait or is he spouting empty words? Must I risk it all and take a chance with him? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2377 days ago

15 May 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - I am hoping to get perspective on an issue more to reflect on it and process it before deciding what to do. This is the situation: My first love and i were together for a year and a half before a very silly solit. He thought he wasn't ready as he was jobless at that time and... (1394 words)

Am I being used? I believe deep down that he is a good person but I am worried that I'm just there to teach him how to be in a relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2381 days ago

15 May 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - have been seeing someone new for 4 months. When we first met, it was unlike anything I have ever experienced – I felt a real chemisty with this person and we hit it off straight away. Despite the distance (he lives in the south of the UK and me the north but I work down south ... (949 words)

My 16 year old daughter wants to spend time with these older men! What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2379 days ago

15 May 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - My 16 year old daughter has recently made some new friends. At first I let them come round to our house only. My issue is they are in their late 20's. They talk about music as my daughter plays guitar. But now she has been wanting to go see their band. I give her curfews which ... (217 words)

I can’t get the thoughts of her having sex with her exes out of my head!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2380 days ago

15 May 2018 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello, my girlfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for 4 months now. I am 17 and she is 20, I know most people would say this is a recipe for chaos and it probably is.. In 2 months I will be going to Brazil (I am from Belgium BTW) to meet her. And next year we ... (401 words)

He says I’m loose! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2381 days ago

15 May 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a virgin and today my boyfriend tired putting a bit of his dick inside and he said later that its very loose, I've never played with myself or let anyone else, no one has entered a finger inside me still he's saying this. can anyone please help me I'm worried ... (53 words)

He ended our friendship because I loved him as a friend only. He sent me a message yesterday after 3 months. Do I reply?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2381 days ago

15 May 2018 (F) age 26-29 - Me and my ex guy friend have been friends for years. He started to have feelings for me and he did confess to me that he wants to be more than friends. However, i don't see us being together and i dont share the same feelings with him. I rejected him politely a couple of times. ... (277 words)