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Archived questions from: 13 May, 2018 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it possible to be in love and committed to a man, whereas developing only sexual interest in others?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2411 days ago

13 May 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - I will turn 30 next month and my life's in a big mess. I've a good career, a loving would-be husband (getting married in early fall this year). We've been together for 11 years. You're wondering where's the messy part? Well, the sex between us is not that great, it's always m... (213 words)

do I look gay, or is it just a good way to attract attention from women?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2407 days ago

13 May 2018 (M)

age 30-35 - 25 year old self professed hipster here. Not really a macho alpha dude but I do work out. I am still on the slim side though. I am definitely not gay. I was in a relationship with a girl for 3 years during college but have been single for 2 years. I am not actively dating ... (688 words)

I was abandoned by my mom, my dad's girlfriend has managed to put a wedge between my father and I and I'm hurting

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

13 May 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm really upset, I hope you can help. My dad when I was younger was horrible to me and my mum, I won't got too into things but when he was drunk he took is anger out on me, I was 6 year old and constantly covered in bruises ( my body not my face) anyway to cut a long ... (534 words)

My ex said hurtful things about my body. I'm self conscious and my get up and go has gone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

13 May 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - I I hope you guys don't mind me asking for advice. I have been feeling low since splitting with my ex around 5 month ago, I have lost my get up and go and I work and then come home and that's it or I go to bed and fall asleep crying. My ex said I was fat as ugly and no man ... (251 words)

Why his sudden change in behaviour?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

13 May 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy through mutual friends age took my number . We had an amazing first long conversation on call followed by a couple of video calls sessions . There were no romantic talks but we were planning to meet up. I agree he is busy but he used to call me all the time or at ... (261 words)

Why can't I get past first dates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

13 May 2018 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm suffering from a really bad 18 months or so of dating, all the dates have been from various apps like Tinder or Bumble but the most dates with one girl in that time is four. However, recently it's got really bad... I haven't had a second date since September 2018! I'm ... (213 words)

He cheated on his wife. I don't want to be the next person he hurts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

13 May 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing a really great guy who makes me laugh and is fantastic with my son. He is a great dad to his own children with his soon to ex wife, (in the process of getting a divorce), and everything seems perfect. When I first met him through online dating, he was honest w... (270 words)

How can I get my mistress to finally trust me after 5 years together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

13 May 2018 (M) age - I've been in a 5 year relationship with my mistress and she still doesn't trust me. I have done everything I can to show her I am trustworthy but she can never fully have faith in me. Her trust problem has caused a lot of tension in our relationship and I wish it wouldn't. ... (215 words)

Possibly pregnant from a one night stand

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

13 May 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - Im probably overthinking this at the moment , i had a date with a guy and we both got pretty drunk. We went back to his and slept together im now thinking if we had a little accident then i would be pregnant. its too late for the morning after pill. we havent spoken since. I ... (189 words)

Wife's teasing wearing leotards has gotten out of hand

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2412 days ago

13 May 2018 (M)

age 41-50 - I asked wife to start wearing shiny leotards around the house; she has a great body and this got me very excited. She really got into it and asked me to buy more and more on ebay; of course I got tighter and more revealing ones. She eventually started wearing them out to go ... (148 words)

I only hear from him when he is on leave ... I don't want to be his booty call.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

13 May 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - to start me and my ex were together for years he joined the army we were together for 2 year of the 3 year enlistment he has, and once he went on deployment, 1 month before he got back he ended it and said it was because he didn't want me waiting for him, and I understand it ... (230 words)

My boyfriend said if I don't give him sex he will get it somewhere else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

13 May 2018 (F)

age 22-25 - Am in a relationship from 3year and i never allowed my boyfriend to touch me even and he never had any issue qith it.. He just said me when i'll permittee him to touch myself then only he'll touch otherwise no.... But now after 2years we got a lot free with eachother...just ... (151 words)

How can I stop thinking about him and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2413 days ago

13 May 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I'm sorry if this is not the right place to vent, but I feel like I can't talk to anyone about something that is bothering me so much right now and just need to hear others' thoughts. I fell for a guy who is a good/long-time friend of mine while I was dating someo... (679 words)

Should I tell my parents I am sexually active?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2410 days ago

13 May 2018 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay, I’m 17 and I just lost my virginity about a week ago. My parents don’t know and I’ve had a few of my closest friends tell me that I need to tell my parents. The thing is, I’m terrified that they won’t let me talk to my boyfriend or be with him anymore. I don’t wanna lose ... (130 words)

At what age would young couples move in together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2412 days ago

13 May 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I am 21 years old and already wanting to settle with my boyfriend. We have made plans in the future to settle and live together as in get an apartment and eventually a house. I am in university full time and seeking part time jobs. We both live with our parents but ever ... (123 words)

My boyfriend and I have very different views

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

13 May 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - I have very different views of life to my partner. We get along great, I am very comfortable with him, he goes out of his way for me, we like each other's company, he makes me feel attractive and is into me. However, sometimes he says things that make me think "what are you ... (551 words)