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writes:My boyfriend tells me he feels no pleasure during sex and the only reason he does it is to get an orgasm out of it. Is something wrong?+we're quite young.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): I agree with the other commenters, if he has an orgasm, then he enjoys it and if he is telling you he get no pleasure out of it, it does sound to me like he is just using u for his own needs, leave him and find urself a man who will make u feel wanted.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (11 November 2008):
Well if he gets an orgasm out of it then he must be enjoying it.
I think what he meant was that doing it with you means nothing to him. He's basically saying he's using you for a good time.
He's probably not mature enough to handle the emotions that come with sex. This is yet another reason that sex under 16 is illegal. At least he's honest enough to tell you.
Stop having sex with him until he can actually grow up enough to understand what it means.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, x..BabyGirl..x +, writes (11 November 2008):
 He wouldn't orgasm if he wasn't enjoying it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): Pretty simple. You're too young to appreciate sex!If that's how he feels, it means you're both totally inexperienced and haven't got a clue what it's all about. You are both a perfect example of why people should wait till they can appreciate sex before they start doing it.I'd say "It serves you right," except that it's not your fault; it's the fault of your peers, your parents, and society in general.
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever- +, writes (11 November 2008):
 WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!?!?!?!?!?!?
I can't say much about the whole having sex young thing coz I lost mine when I was 14 but my boyfriend has never told me that.
Why are you still having sex with him?? He's just using you, and he's even admitted to it. Just leave him. Why should you use your body to give him an orgasm? let him use his hands to get an orgasm. Find someone new who doesn't tell you stuff like that, someone who tells you after sex that it was amazing.
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reader, Boredatwork +, writes (11 November 2008):
 Yes to young to be having sex, and two young to deal with the imotional side of it.... that aside...
The purpose of having sex it not just to cum, but it seems asthough hes not old enough to realise that yet. He needs to take into consideration your feelings also... are you not aloud to enjoy it?
For a girl sex can be enjoyable all of the way through, im not saying its not for a man, but its true the best bit is at the end, and completly over powers the rest. Dont believe what you see in porn films... Theres no reason for the man to 'grunt' the entire way through :)
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