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reader, scared16 +, writes (17 December 2006):
 the only time you are not a vrigin is by having sexual intercourse (penetration needs to occur! x x x
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reader, forgetmenot +, writes (13 December 2006):
 Yeah, you're still a virgin by most peoples standards. I used to think that virginity was just til you're penetrated with a penis but in a way I don't anymore. I don't feel that rape counts and I don't think lesbians who've never had sex with a man (or strap on) are neccisarily virgins either. I guess it's hard to class but I don't know that the label is as important as society makes it out to be.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (10 December 2006):
 Penetration with a penis has to occur for virginity to be lost.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2006):
If there is a penis in your vagina, you are not a virgin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2006): you'd still be a virgin
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reader, vixy +, writes (7 December 2006):
yes your still a virgin, but then virgins are classed as different by different people.
but then again if you haven't had sex then your still a virgin
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2006): Of course you're still a virgin (at least in any sane culture...good luck if you're a part of a culture where women are considered little more than a man's property).
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reader, stina  +, writes (6 December 2006):
 Hi Anon,
I totally agree with Nic. Girls can break their hymen by doing all sorts of things that are not related to sex in the least bit - like wearing a tampon or riding a bike. Just because the hymen is broken doesn't mean that you are no longer a virgin. Even things that are sexual, like being fingered, doesn't make you stop being a virgin. Once you have intercourse, that's when you aren't a virgin anymore.
Take care.
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