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*n Love With An Army Boy 16
writes:i have just recently started going out with this 17 year old...hes in the army!! that doesnt bother me in anyway. in told my dad and his fiancee and they were fine considering my stepsister is going out with his little brother, so they know the family well, plus i went out with my boyfriends little brother. the thing is im scared about what my mum will say...and my brother...my boyfriend played with me the other night and i tossed him off, but the thing is he got me so horny i wanted to have sex with him, but had to restrain myself. the thing is im 13. So what should i do. im 14 in 15 days but hes 18 in march. oh what should i do. it would be alright if i use a condom wouldnt it?
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reader, Gena Bullock  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 Don't do anything--especially have sex at your age. Go to church and cool your heels. Save yourself for the right time and the right person. This is all a hormonal issue.
YOU ARE TAKING ADVANTAGE OF your family's trust if you go through with it. That, is sad.
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reader, In Love With An Army Boy 16 +, writes (13 March 2008):
In Love With An Army Boy 16 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Heyy'al I Am 14 Now Woop Woop, I Took Ya'l Advice Its Greatey Thanks, We Are Now Waitin Till Im 16 Thanks For Ya'l Advice, Means Alot C Ya x
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reader, peaches08 +, writes (10 January 2008):
 You're too young. You are still a child.
This boy turns 18 soon, he will want to have girlfriends his own age, and having sex is an adult decision.
If you have sex with this boy you are putting him into all sorts of trouble.
Wait until you are older to have sex, it's something you will remember for the rest of your life.
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reader, Uncle Trev +, writes (5 January 2008):
If you choose to come on to him, make all the first moves and as a consequence he succomes to your demand for sexual intercourse he has committed statutory rape.
It is a criminal offence that can easily carry anything up to a seven year jail sentence.
There are other things you can do that do not involve sexual intercourse if you feel that close but at the end of the day below the age of consent - irrespective of your personal and his personal views intercourse with a minor is a highly illegal act which could not only permanently ruin his army career, it could put him in jail and also require that he signs himself upon the sex offenders register permanently restricting his future employment around children and vulnerable adults.
If you truly loved him you would never subject him to these kind of risks now would you.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (5 January 2008):
 i completly disagree with loulee. You only 13, you shouldnt be having sex at all, besides your bf is 17 going on 18. If you got pregnant he would proberly go to jail. You should wait until your at least 16 as doing anything sexual with this boy will land you in trouble and him possibly in jail and on a sex offenders register for the rest of his life.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (5 January 2008):
 i think you may need to think this through a bit more carefully no offence sweetheart, but you are only 13 and if something goes wrong you could end up pregnant. i dont mean to scare you but even with a condom there is still a chance of splitting. if hes happy to wait i think you should
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reader, LouLee +, writes (5 January 2008):
 Despite the fact that you're underage, and the other aunts would probably totally disagree with me i would say yes it is okay to use a condom as you've already tossed him off and let him play with you. If you really like eachother then i see theres no reason to not do it....wait til you're 14 though at least.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 January 2008):
 Practice safe sex and unwanted pregnancies or STD's.
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