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... Send *inxy a private message | | | *inxy's profile:I'm 37 a single mum and have just finished a year long relationship. I ended it because it was getting too complicated and stressful, and i am starting college in Sept in preperation for a degree and i didn't want the emotional angst to interfere with my studies. I have had alot of relationships, some pleasant and easy, some complex and hard. I think alot of it boils down to what we believe a relationship should be like, and also what we and the other person need and want from it. One of the worst things that spoils a relationship is by projecting the idea of our perfect partner onto our mate, instead of just accepting them as who they are warts and all. Its wrong to want to change anyone. No-one should have to bend over backwards to please a partner. If you're not happy with your partner as they are when you first meet them, then it's not for you. Be wary of your wants and demands in a relationship, or that idea of the shiny white knight who's gonna whisk you away and sort your life out! Get off your bum and do it yourself! A good relationship should be your best friendship with all the love, respect and trimmings a good friendship has. If you start seeing faults in your partner and demanding unrealistic standards, STOP...It might be yourself you need to have a good look at first! This is the biggest pitfall in a relationship we can all be guilty of to some degree. Be aware. And in any dilemma always ask the question "What would love do...?" |
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How many times do I forgive him!
Q. Please advice - My partner is keeping secrets from me, and I need to know - does not matter how bad. Forgiveness will be given because we have a connection....
A. 9 August 2006: It depends what secrets she's keeping from you? Everybody needs to keep a little slice of thier selves for themselves. But in a relationship, especially where infidelity is concerned, secrets can be extremely damaging! I'm glad you will forgive ... (read in full...)
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Q. I've met this girl but she says she looks for a certain qualities in guys. i match all the qualities accept 1, i am inexperienced. the thing is, im one of those guys that want to have sex for all the right reasons, not jus for fun. I would like to ...
A. 9 August 2006: STOP PANICKING RIGHT NOW! If this girl loves and cares about you, she will listen to you, understand your fears and worries and will reassure you. Fear and anxiety is the worse thing to be afflicted with and once it takes hold seems to lead a life o... (read in full...)
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