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writes:Please, I need suggestions big time!!!!With my boyfriend over 2 years. It's kind of getting boring and settling into a routine. What can we do to get the fun and excitement back into it???? I have suggested nights where just me and him meet up on our own but what could we talk about??What can I do to surprise him and make him feel like it was at the beginning? Would really appreciate any answers. xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (4 December 2007):
 Be spontaneous. All you both really need is to find new adventures and experience them together. Think about what he likes, Think about what you might like to do and plan a weekend to do some of it. You have to work really hard to keep a relationship exciting. Especially a long-lasting relationship. Sometimes people tend to let the fire burn out and thats what causes us to have doubts about the relationship. Put a little time and effort into this. Do something you both have never done before. Take a trip, ANYTHING! There are so much out there that the both of you can do and have fun together. Good luck and have fun!
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (4 December 2007):
 Your imagination is the limit!!
1. Make a scavenger hunt for him with clues and little "gifts" at which the last surprise is a picture of you in sexy clothing with a message saying you are waiting for him in X place. Then make it worth it!
2. Have a weekend road trip and stay at motels in the night. Have a "private" bag with sexy clothing and other perks you can pick up in an adult store of some sort.
3. If you have not been intimate yet or if you don't want this to have to do with sex, you can make a picnic somewhere special for the two of you. Make his favorite meal, bring games or surprises.
4. Think of something he has wanted to do for a long time and make it happen for the two of you. Surprise him.
Sit down and think for awhile on what makes him happy and make it happen for both of you. Make it all about him for at least one day. Good luck!
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