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female
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writes:Hi all, I think my best friend is crushing on me! We have been friends for awhile and I have had a crush on him as well.. Well, lately when we are hanging out with each other, I start getting this more- than- friends vibe from him and here are some signs that make me wonder:1.while we were sitting in his car, the song kissing u came on and we both got quiet and it was a little awkward2. We have Nicknames for each other3. He loves to tease me 4. When we go to the movies, I find him staring at me throughout the movie5. He copies the way I am sitting at the movies- it takes a few minutes, but he does it6. He never used to worry how he looked when we would go somewhere, but the other night he commented on how he should of changed his shirt7. I have met his parents and had dinner at his house after helping him with a flowerbed for awhile8. His parents wanted to meet me9. The dinner over there seemed like a "meet the girlfriend" thing and it seemed like his parents thought I was his girlfriend 10.he has sung to me in various languages11.he hinted around at how he wanted to do something and couldn't and then we ended up doing something- 12. A few days before, we took an impromptu trip to the store because he had to get food for dinner13. He called me one day out of the blue to see if he was supposed to call me and hinted around he wanted to do something14. Most of our talking takes place in his car and when we are alone together15. There have been times I have caught him staring16. When we are in a group situation, his friends may say hi to him, but they don't really stick around17. His friends know me but don't really say anything- well, a few of them do18. If the subject comes up, of us being a couple, he can get defensive and not really say anythingand the list goes on and on...So, I think there is something there and that' it's been building for awhile- it is the one topic we don't talk about!!!So what do y'all think??
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI totally see what you are saying!!! When a love song comes on, even I think back to when i told him... I mean, he teases me about it and then we move on to something else and yet while he is teasing me, he is enjoying every minute of it!!! and I'm usually blushing like crazy:):)!! Funny how he seems to enjoy that part...:)
I would go the route of asking his friends, but I don't want to make this anymore complicated and risk the chance of something even worse happening....
So for now, I'm playing the waiting game and just waiting to see what is going to come-
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the reply!! After reading your answer I realized that I forgot to add a few things to my question: he knows and is fully aware that I like him... After I told him the first time, he mentioned it wasn't going to happen.. Then a few months later, I told him I still liked him and was a little freaked out about how he would respond and he asked me why, if I knew what his reaction would be.. And we don't talk about it....
Right now I don't want to say anything to him because I think it would make things weird between us and I don't want to rock the boat... So i think what ill do is just wait for him to do something...
He had been in a relationship with a close friend of his and that didnt work out really.. So i think that is a possibility to all this....
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