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anonymous
writes:Classic intro: "so there's this guy" well, this guy saw me 2 years ago at a band competition; i was the drum major, so my name was annouced over the speakers. Well this guy heard my name and found me on myspace. since then, he sends me emails and calls me every single day and leaves tons of voice mail messages. We go to the same college, and he waits in the parking lot and watches me walk to my car. he's nice, but he's obsessed! i try to be nice, but he just tries to get closer. I got bold and assertive with him, and he still tries to get so close to me. yeah i want a man that interested in me, just not obsessed! that can lead to bad things! I've tried avoiding him, ignoring him. (trust me, these things are only the tip of the iceberg!! it's just now getting really creepy). He claims he wants to marry me and we don't even really know each other that well. i've told him to be out meeting other girls but he refuses. How do i get him to stop his stalkish/creepy/obsessive behavior??
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (4 December 2007):
 Well thre is only so much you can do or say and if he isnt getting the message just come right out and lie.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlol good answer!
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (3 December 2007):
Well lets go to extremes call the polce and get a restraining order, or go to school with one of your friends so you feel safe or you could do what i would do and plain lie to him tell him your gay im sure he will leave you alone then
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat's just the thing--i mentioned in the original post that i HAVE ignored him. I don't answer my phone, I don't message him back, I steer clear of him at school, yet it continues....going on 2 years now!
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (3 December 2007):
Well easiest way to gt the message to get him to stop is just come right out and say it, but everytme you talk to him reply to messages and answer the phone your encouraging him so just ignore him he will sooon get the message
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