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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi.I love my ex-girlfriend so much and we're still friends and still sleep together occasionally. I know we probably shouldnt, but hey im a man and struggle to say no. I'm constantly thinking about her and yet ive had other girlfriends since i last went out with her, but its just never the same. A big part of me just wants her back for good, but she lives a very unstable, drug-fuelled lifestyle (that i hate btw) but i cant stop her, and she tells me she loves me too but shes not willing to give it another go because of the way shes chosing to live her life. What can i do to stop thinking about her like this and move on even though whenever ive tried in the past its always seemed to fail. Not knowing what to do is tearing my apart, please help. Thanks.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (13 August 2008):
 You're never going to move on with the way things are. Either of you. And how unfair is sleeping with the ex on other women you are meeting up with?
Stop the sex, and if you feel you need to for now, just stay mates and dont have it so intense! Otherwise go cold turkey and stop contact all together if you know deep down you wont move on the way it is.
Still date other women, at the moment its normal to compare them, its too soon to get serious with anyone else. But keep ticking over with getting out there and meeting people because at some point, you will meet someone that you think yes, this is it. And you wont look back.
C xxxxxx
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