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writes: This is a little embarrassing, but I'm really worried.I have a really weird looking vagina, like quite long lips that kinda hide my clit, I think it looks weird but no one I've slept with have said anything, but I'm really scared about the way it looks. :( Like I watch porn and the girls look so different from me :(will guys mind?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2009): Hey I've watched porn to and trust me, I do not have a nine inch dick. Should I be worried that no girl could possibly like my average size?Of course not, porn is a fantasy, it's not how things really are. You can't compare yourself to those images and honestly, most guys prefer a real girl to a porn star any day. You and your body will be that much more appealing just because of how he feels about you.You shouldn't be worried, everyone's looks a bit different and as long as you wash well and take care of things down there no guy is going to care at all. It's very difficult to have a "weird" looking vagina, not to mention if he cares about you it will be great just knowing that it's yours(sounds a bit weird but the point is if he likes you, he'll like your body).
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reader, JSBach  +, writes (26 July 2009):
Vaginas are as individual as faces, but in porn they all look the same because of surgery or because producers select a standard type of vagina for their films. This is a relatively new thing though - I remember that in the 70 and 80s you could see quite a variety of vaginas in dirty magazines, including the large labia type.
If no boy has ever mentioned it, it's a safe bet that they don't mind.
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (26 July 2009):
Do NOT use porn to compare yourself - normal (real) women can't compare to made up, platic surgery... Here's the reality... Any guy who's really interested in you, is interested in YOU and not how your vagina looks. Any guy who's interested in you, should be honnored for you go get naked with him and let him spend time with you most private part... each woman is unique... I've seen women with large lips, and some with almost none - but most are in between. Clits vary greatly, from large to so small that they're hard to find, some ride really high on the body, some low...The fact that no one has said anything supports this... keep yourself nicely trimmed and washed and your man is going to be a happy man. It more important that you know your body and can teach him how to give you pleasure... guys love that, because frankly, most of them at your age don't really know how a woman's parts work... we all needed a good teacher at some point- be that gal!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (26 July 2009):
 I found this little helpful aid to the question: "Am I Normal?" You are normal, really and truly.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/teen-talk/watch/am-normal-behind-fig-leaf-26794.htm
Click on the picture and a little screen will appear above the picture with a whole variety of images of female (and male) genitalia. They are all different.
Take care!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (26 July 2009):
 I agree with the other aunts. Don't worry.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (25 July 2009):
 to be honest guys dont mind as long as it works and does the job, ha!
dont compare yourself to other women, your body is as it is,
we all come in different shapes, colours, and sizes.
you are what you are and if a guy truly loves you he wont comment nastily on how it looks down there.
secondly most of these images you see on porn is usually of women who have had extensive surgery to boost their body part, whether it be vaginal surgery or boob jobs.
dont take them to be your role models because they are not happy with their body as they are or with who they are.
good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): As a guy, I totally agree with SY. If he is one of the rare ones who might complains about it then forget him. Here was the same question a couple of days ago, so check out those answers.http://www.dearcupid.org/question/large-labia-minorais-this-a-turn-off-to.htmlMy wife an I both watch porn and I can tell you that their vulva and labia all look different. There are some who have almost no inner labia, while there are those who could tie them in a knot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): Firstly, don't comare yourself to pornstars.. that could get very exhuasting.
Secondly, hun.. it's a vagina. As long as it has the proper holes, I don't think men will care a bit.
It's like asking a woman if she would reject a block of chocolate if it wasn't a perfect square.
~Sy.
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