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writes:I am 39 year old man. Happily married for 12 years. We are having very good life. We are having great sex life. Atleast thrice a week. My wife cries a lot during the intercourse. After that, she does not remember anything and she is telling nothing wrong. She claims, she enjoyed a lot. Is she in main. Am I too much working on her. Kindly advise
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2011): thnaks a lot for your advise. She gets excited whenever we start and she comes fast. I want her to enjoy the course more time. But more so when we start action after a heated argument. Is there anything i can do on this. thanks
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (12 June 2011):
 My thoughts are that somewhere in her past she associated pleasure during sex with crying. I don't think it is pain that she is feeling but rather a rush of emotion that causes her to cry. Talk to her and see if you can get to the bottom of this as politely as possible. I'm betting that she will say that it has nothing to do with you and that there is nothing wrong with the sex which would be true. Other than that therapy may be the answer. I can see your point as to why this would be so confusing during sex because you see crying as negative where as I think she sees it as a positive thing.
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reader, Dodds  +, writes (12 June 2011):
 Dude everything is fine,your having great sex with her n thats just her way of expressing how much she likes it,you couldnt imagine how many men would crave n even get turned on by their woman screaming like a mad woman...so just relax n enjoy,its all good
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