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Why would someone cheat and then come up with excuses?

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Question - (19 January 2012) 6 Answers - (Newest, 20 January 2012)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

Just out of curiosity I would like to hear other opinions on why someone would cheat on either a wife/husband or a live in BF/GF? and then come up with all kinds of excuses as to why they can't give the other person what it is they want IE; "i have to take care of my sick mother" etc....as opposed to telling the other person the truth.

IMO people who are "happy" and "content" with what they have don't do such things.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2012):

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And the bottom line with all of this is that the TRUTH always comes out.

These people that give these half ass excuses for not being able to give the other person(the one they are cheating with)the relationship that they know they deserve will ALWAYS come out on the short end of the stick.

Don't they know that you can RUN and HIDE from the TRUTH all they want BUT....in the end it always PREVAILS.

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A male reader, dougbcoll United States +, writes (20 January 2012):

dougbcoll agony aunt someone that cheats is being dishonest to them self, other people and( most likely the person they are cheating with.) they may need a lie to cover another lie. they don't want to look in the mirror they are wrong for what they are doing,they don't want to admit guilt for what they are doing. they try and place the blame on their wife/husband, b/g .

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (20 January 2012):

Honeypie agony auntIf they have to admit that they "failed" at being faithful, they have to won their own actions. Some people rather sweep in under the rug and polish their pedestal and lie their ass off..

Why?

Cause they are weak.

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A male reader, Kyle007 United States +, writes (20 January 2012):

Cheating is dishonest so it naturally follows one would lie about it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2012):

some people hate to admit it and think that they are so cool to get away with it. when they do it just makes look stupid cause you cant see that they are cheating on you and that you let them do that

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (19 January 2012):

CindyCares agony aunt Maybe they are not happy or content, but they are comfortable and safe. Rocking the boat can imply big, often negatives changes and " drama " regarding money, status, properties, children, in laws, mutual friends, you name it. Man ( and woman ) is a creature of habit and as long as he finds a way he can keep his cake and eat it too, he won ' t be in a big rush of making a final choice between the two options.

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