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writes:A guy told me he lvd me but i never believed him. i later find out that a friend of mine was warning him to stay away from me cuz she thought he wasnt the right guy 4 me. wheneva we chat he constantly keep askin me about that girl. He has even been calling her even n my presence when i confront him about it he says "i just wanna know her" but he even speaks to her in pulic(especially when he's around his friends) which he has neva done with me. Is he embarrassed 2b with me? Has he got feelings 4 my friend? Reply to this Question
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reader, 11muds11  +, writes (20 January 2012):
I'll try and help. My observations:
1. He's trying to get you jealous and show you he's in demand
2. He's doing the same thing to your friend but in a different way.
3. He sounds like a "player" and because you're allowing it, and he's getting some emotional response out of it, he's succeeding.
If you want to out with a player, that's up to you. But he's treating you with no respect and I suspect he'll continue to do that, even if you go with him.
My suggestion is to walk and find someone who respects you for you, and doesn't like playin around. But that's just what I can see from your writing. Good luck.
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