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writes:I found out that my boyfriend cheated. i confronted him about it, but he denies everything that was said. the sad part is we have kids. why wont he tell me the truth? what is he hidding? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): men cheat for one reason. thier bored with the current relationship and want to see if they still have that girl magnet appeal. it worked on you so well that your caught up in is every action. you probably were the other woman at sometime in his life and now karmas' coming back around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): He is not ever going to tell you the truth! Obviously he is a weak man to even cheat on you so actually fessing up to it is out of the question because it takes a lot of strength to be accountable for something like that, especially with kids in the mix. I'm sorry your even having to ask this question. I can only tell you to run as far away as possible...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009): girl do some digging..thats what i did i have a son with mine and he wanted to deny everything until i started digging around and founf out everything then he finally confessed about everything
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reader, JockoJ +, writes (10 April 2009):
Hardcore cheaters never admit it ever. Even if they're caught red handed. And if they're forced they'll say, "It was only that one time." etc.
You need to take care of yourself. If you're just saying with him because you're not 100% sure he cheated then leave. He did, you know it but you're just hoping the opposite. If you can live with him cheating and you getting lied to, then drop it and don't scrutinize his actions too hard in the future. His story probably won't always add up.
Make sure you keep things civil. This is the father of your children and always will be. Any disagreements between you shouldn't be allowed to affect them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): The worst bit is the not knowing the wondering the sleeplesss nights wondering,he may keep denying but it will get him in the long run, most people have a conciounse and that will be what changes him you will get your answers if you are sure,if you find out he has lied to you when given the chance to own up then hell has no fury,give him say 3 chances to own up, sit him down tell him what has aroused your suspisions talk calmy and give him his chance to explain,if you know that he has and after clear cut chances he won't come clean then what's the point of being with someone who lies and cheats, he's the loser not you, you will make someone else a good and faithfull partner and he will end up in his own deceiptfull world of misery.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (9 April 2009):
 ah but how did you find out?
if it is word of mouth then how can you be sure as to proove it to him.
Maybe he's being crafty and knows you have no real evidence therefore he is denying it and will keep denying it until you can actually proove it to him he will just keep pretending.
you need to have a serious talk with him and make him realise that lying if he has done this won't get him anywhere and that the children will be involved.
hope it works out for ya
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (9 April 2009):
 Are you 100% positive? He is doing what most guys (and girls) in his position do unfortunately. Deny deny deny. Unless you show him a video tape of him doing it he will probably never admit it. And sence you are only 99.9% positive he did it, there will always be that doubt as long as he keeps his mouth shut. And it sucks, I know. The only thing I can say is maybe if you tell him that all you want is the truth so you two can work it out then he might tell you as long as he feels he wont lose you. But, that part is up to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): Hello! I'm sorry to hear that your boyfriend cheated. What you didn't say however is how you know for sure? If there was concrete proof (not just by word of mouth or inclination) you should present it to him in order to trap him into telling the truth. If he still denies it, it wouldn't matter because YOU know he did it. If you just feel like he cheated or have a suspicion it may be a better idea to simply ask him if he did and explain why you think that way. Attacking him and automatically accusing him may have been why he got so defensive.
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reader, niki20 +, writes (9 April 2009):
 he probably doesnt want to admit it because he may be afraid to loose you.
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