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Is a girl desperate or slutty if she calls a guy?

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Question - (9 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 April 2009)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have a long distance friend who I like very much. He's very nice to me and we generally keep in touch by email. More like once a week or so. It's been 2 yrs since we met in a meeting and we haven't cut communication ever.

He says he enjoys our friendship and communications, and when I call he says it's good to hear from friends like me. We are friends, that I know well. That I feel for him is different. I'm very shy but when it comes to him I grab courage to call him although I get all nervous. Do you think he might think I sound desperate if I call him when I can? I call b/c I have discount in calling. He's GI so him calling is difficult.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009):

my long distance girl calls me everyday... I usualy call back if i miss her calls but i never annitiate contact. She is fine with this. So its up to you! goodluck

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A male reader, 2old4this United States +, writes (9 April 2009):

2old4this agony auntWell, what are your intensions with him? By your question I can't tell if you wish just to remain friends or become more than friends. You need to make that choice first so there will not be mixed signals. Either way, you calling him in this situation is perfectly alright. But the frequency of the calls depends on your feelings. Get that straight with him and then things will move along normally.

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A female reader, niki20 United States +, writes (9 April 2009):

niki20 agony auntno you be slutty or desperate if you call him. especially if it is difficult for him to call you. just dont call him to much.

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