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writes: me and my gf have been dating for 2 years, married for 6 months. the other day she left her computer for work left on. i went to switch it off but in the screen was one of these "meet up for sex" websites. i read her messages and she'd been talking to some1. he the last message said "i'll see you on wednesday". when i asked if she wanted to go out on wednesday, she said no. did she cheat on me? why did she cheat just 6 months into our marridge? what should i do about it? Reply to this Question
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (2 May 2011):
yes she is cheatingprove it officially and get a divorce befroe it is too latethank GOD you got yo know every thing early enoughGood Luck
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (2 May 2011):
"did she cheat on me?"
It seems to be, but there is no definite proof.
"why did she cheat just 6 months into our marriage?"
Well. The only way to know for sure is to ask her about it.
"what should i do about it?"
Even when there is a good chance she is cheating on you. You should find out for sure. Get proof of the cheating and start a divorce. You will need proof for divorcing her this soon after marriage. Ask a lawyer for details according the law in your country. And of course you have to leave her if she's cheating on you.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (1 May 2011):
 When women marry this young they frequently get hit with the "I wonder what else is out there?"bug and that restless curiosity can lead to some very un-married behavior such as sneaking around behind your back like a rebellious teenager to seek out the attention of other men. It's true what our parents always told us about not marrying so young. You just haven't lived your life long enough to know what you want. You will have to keep your eye on that one. Even if caught she may still try it again if she's bored, feeling trapped or simply realizes she should not have married so young.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2011): This is not your fault...if she isn't happy with you then she should of talked to you not gone behind your back like this. I would suggest you confront her and ask her about it and maybe your marriage can be saved if you both talk to each other, that's if you want to save it that is? Only you can answer that. I know how difficult it can be, you don't want to believe this is happening, when my husband cheated on me I knew that he was up to something and I didn't confront him, I thought it was all in my head and I regret not confronting him, the signs were there. Ask her about it and be honest. As I say it is not you fault...please remember that. I do feel for what you are going through!
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (1 May 2011):
 Find out for sure, without a doubt that she is cheating and confront her if and or when you find incriminating information.
People cheat for a number of reasons. Insecurity, emptiness, depression. Not getting what they "need". Lots of reasons. It's not your fault, well, not completely anyway.
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reader, littleBB  +, writes (1 May 2011):
I think you should confront her about what you read, be blunt. Maybe she didn't cheat of you just jet , maybe she's going to, maybe she was just playing around on her pc, you should ask her what is going on, and demand an explanation. Be open and honest about your concerns. If she did cheat on you remember it is not your fault.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2011): i think she has definatly cheated on you, sorry. i noticed that you are just 18-21. is your gf between that range. if not, she may regret marrying young. if she is, she may want to feel the rush of being risky and having sex like a lot of others are doing at that age. how is your sex life, is it good.
it must be hard for you. i think you should just confront her. demand why she did it. and then, do you stay with her, that depends on how much you love and trust her. personally, i would tell her where to go.
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