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*appyami
writes:I am dating the most terrific man alive. We have sex sometimes 5 times a day. I am 40 and he is 53. Why is sex more enjoyable for me now than it was 15-20 years ago? I cannot get enough and neither can he. Reply to this Question
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reader, Caring Aunty A  +, writes (8 May 2013):
 It’s more enjoyable because the body is giving itself a LAST HOO-RA before it dies off into the sunset with menopause :) and perhaps there had been a long dry spell, that now with the flood gates finally open – It’s catching up for lost time – Hallelujah!?Or just maybe, you and this guy physically compliment each other’s libido without all the hang ups/issues of yesteryear hanging around in ones head… Plus when you find a competent lover, who wouldn’t be enjoying themselves 5 times a day (at first)!? 15-20 years ago were we not thinking self-conscious thoughts about our body image and performance issues, having stress factors of family and work etc. Whereas when we mature we become more relaxed, in tuned with our desires and know how to party – make hay while the sun shines so to speak…CAA
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (8 May 2013):
Maybe it’s because you’re more experienced, and perhaps also because you’re with a good lover. Sex is best enjoyed within a loving relationship. You obviously both find each other desirable, know how to please each other and have compatible sex drives. Whatever the answer, just enjoy it. 5 times a day is quite something.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2013): Sex gets better as you get older - you also are not so focused on body issues.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 May 2013):
 because you have hit your sexual stride... it comes after age 35 for most women....
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