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anonymous
writes:Actually, I'm from Pakistan who came to US 2 months ago after my wife Spouse Visa petition for me was approved. two and half years ago, we met through internet dating and got married in third country " Dubai". I'm 32 whereas she is 40. She is really beautiful and have big boobs which I really like. The problem is that sometimes she finds my obsession with her boobs cheap as I have to admit that I do pass some cheap comments but that out of sheer love. During sex, she does not mind that but she says I'm being amateur passing comments on her body when we are not having sex. Other than this, she is a wonderful person and cares for me a lot. Don't you guys think husband and wife shouldn't have any limit when it comes to commenting on each other body or I have got it wrong here? If yes, then should I cut if off? I would appreciate if you guys could guide me on this. Thank you all!
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reader, fishdish +, writes (9 May 2013):
 I don't think I'd mind the comments if you called them breasts, but boobs is very...like childish/adolescent slang word, in my opinion, so if my guy was saying how he liked my boobs I'd kind of feel cheaper quicker than if you used a more sophisticated word. same with knockers.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (8 May 2013):
I think she wants to be more than a sex object. So an occasional comment may be fine, but too much of a good thing is too much.
Find other things to compliment (not just sexual or physical things).
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reader, peanut_gallery +, writes (8 May 2013):
Whatever the case may be, she doesn't like it. So, change the nature of the comments. If that is all the "compromising" married people had to do, the world would be a much happier place.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2013): Ahh, it's really annoying when all the man is talking about is boobs. I have large breast for my body, and every single men comments on them, like there is nothing else to it.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 May 2013):
 OP,
I love my husband and he has a boob fetish.. if they are naked he grabs them....
IF the only thing he ever said to me was "i love your boobs" or made comments on my boobs all the time I'd find it annoying and insulting. A woman is more than her boobs.
I'm delighted you find your wife so enticing and attractive, but the truth is, when it's not about sex... comments should be much more generic "i like that dress." "you look lovely" stuff like that.
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