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26-29,
*rissyA
writes:My friend seems to be really annoying nagative and moody lately. Im in love with this boy and im texting her about him and she claims shes all annoyed with my obsessive talking about him. And thats such a load of bull. She will rant and rave about her guys when shes dating my best friend! I try talking to her about her negativity and she turns it around on me! and she gets in my business all the time! What should i do about her? She is so annoying but i cant just drop her in the dirt and leave! Help me please
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reader, KrissyA +, writes (9 April 2010):
KrissyA is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks guys! :) ya so ive just decided to be aquaintances with her! Shes not th type of girl i want to be close friends with! My mom started to get into trouble at my age cuz she had the wrong type of grl as a best friend!
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reader, c_keller  +, writes (1 April 2010):
I agree with all the other responses!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (31 March 2010):
She's either jealous, worried about losing you, or just self centred. Try talking to her and asking her in general how she is (there could be something in her life that is hurting). If that doesn't work, don't be afraid to pull away from her a bit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): Maybe she's having a tough time with something at home or isn't happy with her guy, so it hurts her to see you so happy. Try to talk to her about this and talk to your other friends about your guy.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (31 March 2010):
 Sounds like a pretty normal problem for friends in high school to have. Either you really are talking way too much about this new guy and just driving her crazy, or she's a little bit jealous, or she's a little self-centered and just wants to talk about her. What you do is weight out this friendship... is she always like this, and is she worth being friends with? If she's not, maybe you should start to distance yourself and chill out the friendship. And if she's not always like this, maybe you should see if she's having a deeper problem and just taking out her angst on you.
Good luck, sweetness?
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