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writes:I'm really confused atm. Me and this guy i met at a college party went on a date last week and had a really good time. we kissed and cuddled loads and just generally acted like a couple i.e. holding hands. The thing is he hasnt actully asked me out and acts slightly off with me when we text each other. ahh why is he giving me such mixed messages?? im not sure what he wants, how will i ever find out?
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reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (27 December 2008):
 He probably isn't sure what he wants either! Back off and let him come to you. Try not texting him for a few days. See if he continues to text you. Keep your feelings about him under wraps;. The more you talk about him the more likely he is to stay away. He liked you enough to kiss and cuddle. His holding your hand is a hopeful good sign, however even if he was attracted at the time of the party chances are his has had a change of mind or just wants to take it slowly. Men have a tendency to move at a snails pace while we women sometimes move like a frieght train, once we're on board we just let the engine go full steam ahead *LOL*
Don't worry about it. If he hasn't jumped track then you have a chance. Throw on a few brakes and slow it down, watching for the broken tracks. Take your time with this and make sure that you really have the right Engineer for your Train. 8-)
My best to you and may your TRAIN stop only at the DEPOT of YOUR CHOICE.
God Bless,
Blue_Angel
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reader, vamp-gal +, writes (27 December 2008):
 Hey,
With the texting he may be a little nervous, not being able to see your facial expressions when you recieve the text, many people have a problem, where they don't know what to say to a person when they're not in front of you, when they are, they can at least ramble on about pointless things (like me :D lol). Also, considering it's through a text, you may misenterprate it, for him being off with you, because you can't hear the tone in which he is saying it.
Also, he may not have asked you out yet because it's nervous. It's one thing to cuddle and kiss, but it must still be, kinda, nerve-wracking asking, incase you do turn him down.
Good Luck with what ever happens.
I hope this helps.
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