How do I know if I'm in love with someone?
Q. I have a huge dilemma. I am 16 years old. How do you know if you are in love with someone? And what do you do if you have a crush on someone a lot older than you? Please help me! ...
A. 9 September 2005: Forget all the crap about pheromones and that. You are 16. Underage. Legally prohibited in most countries from having sex. There are millions of adolescents like you around the world. I know its boring, but DO YOUR STUDIES, involve yourself with ... (read in full...)
Why is another girl's g-string in my boyfriend's bed?
Q. I recently got back with my ex after a couple of years. I have only stayed at his house twice, but both times when I woke up in the morning (and he was in the shower) there was a g-string in his bed where he had been sleeping!! Now I do know tha...
A. 9 September 2005: Scenario: Last night I found a dildo strap on in my bed. I didn't say anything because I didn't want to cause an argument.
Listen lil lady: he sleeps with the g string because he is mentally with with another person.
Get real and face the issue or... (read in full...)
I'm perfectly happy with my own company and no relationships. Am I strange?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am an adult guy and quite enjoy being in company of my own. Actually, the times in solitude are some of the most relaxing times for me. I have been like this for ages. But now that I am becoming free and can earn my own bread, I don...
A. 9 September 2005: No Not Wrong. It entirely depends how you want your life to be. Reclusive with inner strength or playing on lifes rich tapestry. Frankly like you I choose the former. I avoid people as much as possible but participate when necessary. Its a balance ... (read in full...)
What is the difference between a "serious girlfriend" and a fiancee?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months. 2 months ago, he ask me to marry him, and we became engaged. For a couple of reasons, he decided and I now agree, that we aren't ready for that "next step". Therefore, we have taken a step back ...
A. 9 September 2005: If you have planned a marriage you cant be a girlfriend - any more than my wife can be. There is a commitment. If he considers you a girlfriend or serious girlfiend or fiancee he is juggling his commitment and he has another plan in his head. If you ... (read in full...)
My husband won't stand up and say NO to anyone...
Q. I have been married for 8 years and have had it with the fact my husband don't have a backbone. He can't say NO to anyone except ME. He lets his friend use him and when I get fed up and mad and tell him he better tell them or I will, he still won't. ...
A. 9 September 2005: As someone said to me today - stop being a doormat! Yes you love and care for him but he needs to put you a bit higher on the pecking order. Ask him why he is so soft with his mates. Probably he is insecure and needs to "buy" or reinforce ... (read in full...)
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