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writes:Me and my partner have been together for 2 years and everything was great till a fortnight ago, he's turned very hostile towards me, he won't make any contact at all and I feel as if I've done something wrong. Reply to this Question
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reader, Carina  +, writes (14 July 2007):
 It sounds as though there's been some misunderstanding or else someone else is causing problems. All you can do in this situation is ask him. Writing a letter is always a good way to do it.
Tell him you have no idea what this is all about and obviously it's upsetting you tremendously. Ask him please to explain what's going on because you feel as though you've done something wrong, but you don't know what it is. Remind him that after 2 good years together it's extremely confusing and you'd much appreciate some sort of explanation. Good luck.
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (14 July 2007):
 Have you done anything? Have you been creepin and he's found you out? If you're clean, then my gut feeling is he's having sex with someone else and he's losing interest in you. Talk to him about how you're feeling, but don't confront him about being with another person, and don't blame yourself either. People do things for selfish reason's and are in control of their own actions. If you want to be a better lover, then call me back on that issue.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2007): Perhaps he is in a bad mood, he is cheating on you or he is angry at something you did or said.....we have no idea what could have caused this change in his behavior, why don't you try to have a rational conversation with him later, try not to get too emotional, and just start out by saying, I think there must be something bothering you, because you have been really hostile towards me lately, is this something that is going to be normal for you, or is there something I need to do differently, tell me what is on your mind, please?
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