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writes:My wedding is in September 2007 and I have been engaged for 4 years. Two years ago when my son was born I started being attracted to my fiancee's best friend. Keep in mind he will be the best man at our wedding. As the days go by and we hang out more and more, the attraction gets stronger. It gets so strong that there are some nights that I dream of him, not just hanging out but kissing him and the last dream I had was I had slept with him. It also seems that he likes me too and when we are all three together his friend and I make sense to each other and I am pushed even more away from my man. His freind buys things for my son and he loves our son he's just a gentleman and respects me. My problem is that I just want to sleep with him and that's it. I never been with anyone else sexually except with my fiancee. What should I do? Should I sleep with his friend or not before the wedding?
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 I would say not. How would you feel if your partner slept with your best mate? Not good at all I would say. I would stay away from the mate unless you aren't going to get married and end things with your partner so you can have a night of passion.
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reader, neonpinkngooey +, writes (14 July 2007):
 Although many people go through the same predicament as you, not many people actually go through with their fantasies. Honestly, it would be morally wrong for you to sleep with your fiancee's best friend. it would be morally wrong to sleep with anyone but your fiancee. You know that already, though. I would just suck it up if i were you, and try your hardest to forget about him. If all you want to do is sleep with him, it is really not that big of a deal, and it is easily forgettable. Try not to hang out with him so much, and when you start thinking about him, just remind yourself of how much you love your fiancee. It would not be worth it to betray the person you love just because of hormones gone wrong.
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