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writes:*OP's Original Title*I'm 13 years old and I haven had a boyfriend in a while. I'm my grade, no guys like me and no guys ask me out. I don't know why they don't like me!!!!! It is really making me upset. I'm 5 foot, have breasts and have a pretty face. I don't act like a slut in school. I don't want that image for myself. I want a boyfriend but I don't act despeate. but I want cute boys to like me. Im nice and sweet. I don't get why boys don't like me!!!Do you have any advice??????
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2010): Thanks so much for the advice guys!!!! :) it really helped me out and I will try to put myself out there:) I will tell you how it goes :)
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reader, KittyCat123987  +, writes (10 July 2010):
"Make sure if you do that ask your best friends to go with you. They are the ones who convince him to like you. They would never leave him alone till he starts to like you. make sure you tell your friends to not pressure him."
I'm sorry but completely disregard that person's advise. Do you want a boyfriend your best friend forced into liking you/pretending he likes you? Getting a best friend to do that makes you seem immature and the guy wouldn't like that.
But I agree with the others: 13 is way too young to be worrying about dating. Just enjoy it.
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (10 July 2010):
 Dont worry at all! I didnt even have my first boyfriend till i was 14! Tbh, most people in your year will be single and not liking it, there just isnt enough people to go round
It will happen for you, i have always found, if you go out with your girl mates, and have a great time, you seem really attractive and natural, and not care about a boyfriend, then when you least expect it, you will find an interest :)
Just focus on having fun :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 July 2010):
Stop panicking. You're only 13. Do you know how many guys your age will actually be interested in dating, or mature enough to date? Probably none. One or two if you're lucky. Guys mature at a slower rate than girls, and most of the guys your age won't really understand what dating is and such. It has nothing to do with you at all. You're just maturing at a fast rate. Just relax and enjoy your time while you're still young. Plenty of guys will come your way as you get older.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (10 July 2010):
 Breasts and a pretty face aren't everything, so I suggest you don't use that to justify why you shouldn't be single.
Instead of waiting for boys to approach you, why not ask one out? If he says no, just move on to another one. You'll never know unless you put yourself out there and try. Besides, at 13 you have plenty of time to find another boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): It's either that you're not putting yourself out there and showing signs of interest or your personality/the way you dress; guys don't prefer nerds, losers, or annoying girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): I totally understand how you feel. Im in that same problem. Normally, If you like a guy you need to go up to that guy and be very friendly with him and laugh and be nice with him. Then ask him to go hang out like the movies or something. Make sure if you do that ask your best friends to go with you. They are the ones who convince him to like you. They would never leave him alone till he starts to like you. make sure you tell your friends to not pressure him. Then he should feel more comfortable. Good luck:)
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