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writes:just wondering how others feel, wife was quite open about past lovers , no problems there, from the time she started having sex she said she had some big ones, 8, to 9 inches, 5in around, said they hurt but had a gleem in her eye talking about em, I'm not that big....needlest to say kinda jealous , but love to hear her tales, anyone else like to hear wives talk about past lovers ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2010): Unless a woman measures it, how the hell are they going to know circumference? Hell, I didn't even think about mine till I got on this site and discovered it is a thing women think about sometimes. Obviously she measures. If a woman measures, she is probably a size queen. Sucks for you then.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2010): Well, my new GF had a FWb before me who was 8 or 9 inches (could never get a straight answer). She said she enjoyed sex with him, but that it hurt and felt "like a watermelon up there". I think the girth hurt more than the length. She could not really do doggie with him, and said toward the end of their tapering relationship, it was absolutely routine and not pleasurable because he never made her come and he thought only of his needs. But I found out through other means that she dug his length, so I often think it was all talk when she chided how I filled her up and I was the best. Of course I was jealous for a long time, because I am average. I was also jealous because he is an olympic medalist in a sport that I am also very involved in, but not as successful. So he is like the "super-me", which was an ego fuck at times. Had to get rid of that mental crap, and I did. Back to the size thing...well, I finally accepted that she is with me, not him, and she loves sex with me. She also has smallish toys and hates to see big dicks in porn, so I can tell she is more amped up on confidence and sexuality than size. I also accept that size is a benefit, but it's not everything. 5 inch girth is not huge, and in fact, on a 9 inch long dick, that constitutes a pencil dick if you look at the proportion of it. I am 5.5 - 6 in girth, and I may in fact be thicker than his big tool (although I doubt it)...but she loves it, doesn't care about him, so why care? Love what you got if she does! One thing I've learned...women may not admit to everything, but they do act on everything. If she was not happy, you'd find out somehow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): Ask her what this is all about. Maybe it's an introduction to some fantasy play. If so, buy a large dildo and give her the experience... Odds are good that she's not trying to make you feel bad.
It's kind of funny, we guys always want to think that we're the biggest that our wives ever had... but in reality if they've had enough partners the chance of that diminishes GREATLY... but we still want the reassurance... My wife has never compared me with any of her past lovers, nor have I compared her with mine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): It's nice to know your wife can be so open with you. A lot of couples wouldn't dare talking about such. For many people they either see it as a personal thing and don't feel comfortable discussing it with their current partner, or as simple as, well - lets just say people get jealous!
I personally don't see why you'd enjoy listening to her speak about her sexual past. If my boyfriend randomly spoke about his old girlfriends and how big some of their boobs were I'd actually be VERY put off. Call me old fashioned/a jealous person, but I couldn't stand that. I understand the curiosity indeed, but wondering and knowing are different things. I'd rather just leave my mind wondering.
And as I know from my own experience (the boyfriend I'm with now) has the same size penis. Yes indeed it hurts, more so than pleasure sometimes. So if she ever tells you you're the best lover she's had, believe her. It really isn't the size that counts.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (10 July 2010):
 You should believe her about it hurting. 8 or 9 inches is definitely into the cervix boxing category of pain. Plus pleasurable sex has very little to do with penetration. It mostly has to do with what you can do with your pubic bone and hands, and how good the foreplay is. Many women can't even orgasm from penetrative sex. For some it's all about the oral. Seriously don't worry about penises past, she likes yours.
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