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writes:There is this guy who I was friends with last year. We hooked up but we didnt go all the way cause I wasnt ready. After that, it felt awkward and we stopped hanging out with each other. I saw him at a party, he was drunk and so was I. I was trying to get over my ex boyfriend by flirting with all these guys to make me feel better. He gave me a kiss on the cheek but I lied and said that I have a bf. So he backed off and we talked for a while. Then, he asked me if I wanted to go to his room. I dont know why (maybe it was the alcohol) but I thought that he honestly wanted to show me his room and said yes. He kept asking me about my bf but i said that I didnt wanna talk about him. He then said that he was gonna close the door and thats when it hit me and i said that i should go. He was a gentleman and walked me home.I saw him but it felt so awkward as if he was my ex boyfriend. We didnt really talk much, as we both didnt know what to say. Does he feel self consious or does he hate me now or what?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (27 October 2008):
 I completely agree with RugMonkey (hilarious/somewhat dirty name). It is probably awkward between you because if the completely awkward incident that happened. He was going for it and you gave him the stop sign. He thought you were interested, and you weren't. That's awkward.
I think you did ABSOLUTELY the right thing by walking away and not putting yourself in a sexual situation, but that's probably why things are a little awkward. Just make you intentions clear (do you want to be just friends or are you interested in getting to know him better) and it won't be so weird next time.
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reader, rugmonkey +, writes (27 October 2008):
It's awkward because you guys never talked about the nature of your relationship after the first incident. You two both probably had different assumptions going into it. The only way you'll know what he thinks is to talk to him - if you really value the friendship I'd suggest that. Otherwise, don't trouble yourself with it.
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