A
male
age
30-35,
*aylorrigsby
writes:yah i'm 13 i know sex isn't worth it in the end but i still want it for some reason any help Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, one girl, thousands of questions.  +, writes (10 October 2010):
 i understand how you feel, im going through the exact same time as you.. i think about sex all the time. ive got used to it and that i know my boyfriend wouldnt do it as im 13 but i wouldnt myself, its wrong.
A
male
reader, jamster213 +, writes (3 January 2010):
im 17 now and at 13 i wanted to have sex as well and i did the reason you want sex is because you have got to the age where you know lots about it and may have watched it happen and now after seeing and hearing about it you want to feel what its like so just do what you thinks right but just remember safety
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008): I am in the same situation...is something wrong with me?
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): Girl there is much more to life than only sex.
...............................
A
male
reader, rcn +, writes (10 September 2007):
 Your hormones are changing. You're going from eeeewwww to thinking guys in a different way. I agree you should not act on your feeling until you are really, really sure. Your virginity is yours, once it's gone that's it. Watch out when choosing a person to be with. There are guys your age that love dating virgins, then when they give it up to them, they're done with you then on to the next one, because they don't date non-virgins. I really with there would be a way to plug in memories of a girl who is older who regrets their first. Take it slow, don't become one who always asks "i can't believe i chose him"
...............................
A
male
reader, jm81690  +, writes (9 September 2007):
 The average age to lose your virginity is 16-17, 13 is pretty young man, you probably arn't even close to finishing puberty, I'd say wait a couple years bro.
...............................
A
male
reader, Jamer70 +, writes (9 September 2007):
 well im glad your mature enough to relise that its not worth it but as for wanting it, its your teenage hormones raging.
We all get that feeling every now and then even when we're older.
We just gotta control ourselves and makes sure we dont do anything dumb and something we will regret.
...............................
A
female
reader, girlwhoneedshelp +, writes (9 September 2007):
 Everyone feels a little bit like this at your age. Its the time in your life that you start to become aware of your sexual self but it isn't the time that you act upon your impulses. You aren't ready for anything physical yet so please don't get into anything! Don't waste your first time on some one night loser either. Wait for the right person. You also have to think about the responsibility that comes with having sex. I know I'm sounding like a boring grown up but having sex with someone is a serious thing and you need to make sure your careful. There are all sorts of different things you need to know before you actually do the act and its very important you are fully aware of everything before you actually try it. Just listen in your sex ed classes and be ready in your head before your ready to get in bed!
...............................
A
female
reader, snowy91  +, writes (9 September 2007):
i was like that as well. and sometimes i regret rushing into it the way i did. its not everything its cracked up to be anyway. i know that a lot of girls are under the illusion of sex being the best thing in the world. but theres more to life than sex, and when youre in a relationship and feel youre ready then you should do it.
...............................
A
female
reader, sarasexypants +, writes (9 September 2007):
I see your a guy, and thats normal, meaning your hormones are raging at this age. I'm only 1 year older than you and I am a girl, But dont give your virginity away at such a young age. Just think it through, if you want it THAT bad as to where you would lose your virginity to some girl that you do not evem have deep feelings for, then do it. Just be careful along the way.
...............................
|
