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*lexandre
writes:hello everyone! I am 13 years old and in year 8.there's this really cute girl at my high school in my class and i really have very strong fellings (and thoughts) about her i even think about her when i masturbate. 5-8 times a week by the way... anyway i really like her and would like her to be my girlfriend and ive asked her but every time i ask (rarely) she just says no or tells me that she has never had a boyfriend before. Also her big brother dosent like me (yr 10 btw) and is acctually quite mean to me.all im pretty much asking is how can i make her like, become interested or even go out with me?please help me!!
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reader, Alexandre +, writes (6 May 2012):
Alexandre is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you to everyone who wrote.
i now understand what to do.
this has been very helpful and usful information to me i have no longer any need for any more answers because i get what she thinks. ive asked her twice now and i shall stop asking her, mabe we could be just freinds.
thank you once again to everyone who wrote and btw i never FORCED her just simply asked.
people can keep writing to this question but i now have no need and will block it from my email.my greatest thanxs to all
AlexC
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2012): At your age you should be somewhere playing basket ball
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (6 May 2012):
 You can't. Don't waste any more time.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (6 May 2012):
 Yeesh, how many times have you asked her to be your girlfriend?
No, never mind, I already know the answer....TOO MANY!!! Stop asking this girl out. You're showing signs of desperation which is a MAJOR turn off for girls.
INSTEAD, act like she doesn't exist. Ignore her, and see if she comes round wanting some attention from you.
OR better yet, you could find a girl that DOES LIKE you. Instead of trying to force a girl with a big, mean brother who could probably beat you up, to be your girlfriend.
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (5 May 2012):
 You want to FORCE her to date you?
Why?
She doesn't like you. Why would you want someone who doesn't like you to go out with you?
Let me put it to you this way. Think of a certain kind of food you hate eating. Just thinking about eating it makes you feel sick. Now, imagine someone saying, "How can I force him to eat this food and like it?"
YOU CAN'T. You can't force anyone to do anything they don't want to do, nor should you even want to.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (5 May 2012):
You can’t make her like you. If she doesn’t have the same feelings for you that you do for her, you can’t make her have those feelings. You can be a good friend to her though, just don’t form a friendship with her assuming that one day it’ll be more. She knows how you feel so you’ve made it easy for her to tell you if she feels differently in the future, but don’t get your heart set on it. I realise that a no wasn’t what you wanted to hear but at least she has been honest with you. Just don’t think that there’s a magic formula to change her mind because there isn’t. Sometimes you have to let go.
I wish you all the very best.
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