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writes:Im 18 and i have a baby girl....guys tell my im sexy all the time im always faithful in my relationships but its like no matter what i always get cheated on why is that? Reply to this Question
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (6 June 2010):
 Firstly, can you guarantee that they have all cheated on you?
Secondly, a lot of guys will cheat if they get away with it. If these guys have cheated on you and you've done nothing about it then they will continue to do so. You need to make it clear that cheating is something that you will point blanc not accept. Then the unfaithful guys will steer clear of you, and if a guy knows this and stays with you, then you'll know you probably have nothing to worry about.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 June 2010):
 Perhaps you jump the gun. Maybe you get involved both sexually and emotionally with men before knowing them well and knowing what do they feel about you and what kind of relationship they want to have with you.
I say that because you mention that guy tells you all the time that you are sexy. Sooo ?
What has this got to do with their possible fidelity ,or lack of the same ? "You are sexy " means " I can see myself f...ing you ",no more and no less. It's not a promise to be loyal.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 June 2010):
It's your choice in men. You're picking the wrong men, so look at the type of men that you're choosing, because they're wrong.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (6 June 2010):
 Bad choice in men. The question is not why do guys cheat on you, but why do you date guys who are cheaters. Unless of course you want to believe that somehow you make them into cheaters.
A common enough thought but a very dangerous one. You don't cause others to be assholes but you can enable them. After all, they couldn't have cheated on you if you weren't involved with them right?
Try to pay better attention to the personality of the guy before you get involved. I get the feeling considering your age and that you have a child you are still in the "danger" phase of your life. Dating "bad boys" and not using common sense. Well that is you choice but look at your exes, did they cheat on others? Are they unreliable in general? Gosh, so it ain't just you is it? Just bad choices.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 June 2010):
 Either you are jinx or you have bad luck.
Be smarter and be a better picker of men . You should have sufficient experience by now to know which type of man fits that kind of profiles.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (6 June 2010):
 Next time, go for a guy you don't consider your type. The kind that may be boring, not flashy, and are steady and peaceful. You may want to change the place where you meet guys too.
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reader, Boombadaboom  +, writes (6 June 2010):
 maybe some more information would help us answer better
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): going for guys your own age ? meeting guys in bars ? geing for guys you feel sorry for ? going for guys you think are misunderstood?
cheating is astonishingly common . the best deal is to really get to know someone before falling in love and dating.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (6 June 2010):
 You keep picking the same type of man. The wrong one for you. Try and see a pattern in the way you pick a partner, and the type of man you get involved with. Maybe it is the group of people you have around you and maybe you need to meet new sorts of people.
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reader, YankY +, writes (6 June 2010):
Telling a girl there sexy normaly means that the guy dosent care as mutch if they comment on ur hair and eyes for example and not ur tits or ass it's normaly a good sign the guy cares about u and comment on him aswell make him feel good about him self unlike me were I get put down all the time but my gf is always there for me so I don't cheat never have never will but remember complement him and keep track of wot he says about u don't carry a small not book and write it down that's just wired just try to remember and if he puts his hand on ur ass in public and not ur back it's not normaly a good sign ether also try not to rush into intamasy or sex (like my gf is tryin to do) take it Carly slow not to slow but just the right pace.
P.s. hope this has helped and soz bout spellin I'm dislecsic and my iPod key pads too small for my hands.
-Yank
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): Bad luck, I have a friend the same seems to happen to her. She only really dates bad boy assholes though, so it makes sense for her.
It's not about being sexy, it's about the person cheating. Some people just cheat.
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