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writes:She didn't wish on my B'day..what does it mean..??Hi, I found myself attracted towards a girl since i met her in a Train journey. During journey only i got her email ID so I started my communication with her via emails and gtalk. But one day i told her about my feeling and I got her reply email where i found she is neutral and that point of time was not made her mind.(I know it was too early). Again after one months i started sending her sms and emails, all the time she also reply me same way. But today is my B'day and i was expecting B'day wish from her, at least sms on mobile but she didn't wish me on my b'day...What does it mean??...Can any one tell me what she wants..? If she was not interested in me then why always she used to reply my emails and sms in a postive manner....even very normal friends also wish each other on happy B'day..But she didn't..can any one help me to find out her mind set.Thanks you very much!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (29 March 2010):
 Even normal friends or internet friends will wish you happy birthday.
The reason why she did not is a puzzle. It could be that she has forgotten or missed it ?
Did you inform her that you just had your birthday and she still did not wish you a belated birthday ?
If it is , it means that she does not believe in wishing people happy birthdays.
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reader, ritesh +, writes (29 March 2010):
ritesh is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah I agree she she was not obliged to wish me..But it was not only that...She was knowing my feeling & intention. since i have been told her at the first Instance(Though it was too early)..Then also our communication through emails & SMS was continued. If she is ignoring only my B'day(I know she knew my B'day date..Just one day before we had SMS'ed). So is that she try to give me some ignorance sign or try to tell me, she don't want to involve with me...But then why all sms & emails, if this is the case...??? Still i don't understand this...And wishing someone on B'day is not a obligation but its a morality..!! I m not hurt because she didn't wish me..I m more bother to know, what she is thinking about me..!
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reader, unwind  +, writes (29 March 2010):
Well . . . sorry to tell you this, but she isn't obligated to wish you happy birthday. She really isn't a friend of yours from what I can gather. it's not like you shared much time together in person, and only communicated by messaging and emails. I don't know what you expectations are, but this "relationship" isn't much to begin with to expect anything.
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reader, YourDestiny11 +, writes (29 March 2010):
 It could have easily slipped her mind. Dont over think. She could have a lot going on. Happy birthday.
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