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writes:I've been talking to this guy for like eight months. He has had a girlfriend for the whole time at first we weer just friends but then we started hanging out and flirting.he kept telling me that hé was going to break up with her. A little whilee ago he kissed me and now he told me they broke up but they didn't. Why did he lie to me?
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (14 June 2011):
 He's cheating. He is just telling you that so you are more comfortable with the idea while he is getting both of you. He is winning here while both of you are the ones losing. Just get rid of this guy, nothing good will even come from him leaving his gf now anyway. Trust me and don't feel bad for falling into this because I fell for the same thing with this girl a few years back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): Ummm...because he wants to get in your pants...isn't that obvious?
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reader, Dodds  +, writes (14 June 2011):
 Telling you what you 'wanted' to hear increased the likelihood of him getting into your pants,no more no less
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (14 June 2011):
 He has been CHEATING on his gf WITH YOU. So, he has been dishonest to his GF about where is heart has been.
If he can lie to her, his actual GF, then he can certainly lie to you about the status of THAT relationship.
Remember, if he can sneak around WITH you, he can sneak around ON you too.
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