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I'm impatient. Is it usually this difficult to get a guy's attention?

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Question - (14 June 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 June 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi! I've decided to ask for advice here because I'm sure there's someone who has gone through this. I like a boy from my school.

I'm not trying to make him notice me because we already know each other but I've never thought it would be that hard to get to the next level with him. We've been chatting on the internet for months, but most of the time I'm the one who starts the conversation.

He has given me compliments and I think he likes me too but when I'm texting first I feel like I'm annoying him. I mean, if he really liked me, wouldn't he do something?

He texts me at intervals of 8-10 days and that makes me really sad. I'm impatient and I can't wait long. I don't know what to do and how to act. I don't see him often at shool and as the vacation is coming I feel depressed because I won't see him for two months, unless something happens. He's mysterious and

this makes him even more attractive. What do you think I should do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2011):

I don't think I should tell him how I feel, he'll loose interest in me.. but I'm not giving up on him, we have many things in common and he often gives me compliments on my appearance..

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (15 June 2011):

RAINORFIRE agony aunt guys aren't that complicated he probably likes you some what your a girl hes a guy you have boobs long hair pretty eyes and generally smell good guys like that.. generally i put you all in three categories girls that give me the butterfly feeling girls i can tolerate and would probably sleep with given the opportunity and the girls i wouldnt touch with a ten foot pole ... i kno how you could probably get him to talk to you more often im guessing your in the tolerate category things can go any way from here... I suggest just being his friend the more time he spends with you the more you will move up the totem... any ways you have all summer to spend some quality time.. dont waste it

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A female reader, Dear Mandy United Kingdom +, writes (14 June 2011):

Dear Mandy agony auntHI

have you thought he may be feeling just like you are right now? One of you need to ask the other out before you both get into a habbit of avoiding the issue. Its the 21st century ASK HIM OUT FOR A DATE lol xx

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