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writes:this girl i liked said that she didnt like me.....i am kind of getting over her....but i still have a feeling for her and its hard to get over it but im trying. Things were getting very awkward between us when she found out that i liked her....she wasnt comfortable around me....so to avoid all of this awkwardness, i just told her that i am over her and just wanna be friends.Now, our friendship is kind of growing and we talk to each other more frequently.....its just that there is always a hint of awkwardness of the past no matter what.....today, i was in the library with her and our friends and she gave me that sharp glare out of nowhere....i was just focusing on sth else and when i just looked at her....all i saw for a second was a sharp stare at me......she also does a few wierd things sometimes....when i dont give her alot of attention, she approaches me suddenly and starts talking abt randomn things.....she also tries to make me jealous....by talking abt this other 'hot guy' and by other means. Its a bit annoying these days, bcoz i still think abt her that way and that i am bcoming more of a friend to her, thats all.....i wanna change this !!how should i be around her? i dont understand...plz help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2011): She doesn't like you as more than a friend, but she still wants you to like her. For whatever reason, the thought of you moving on from her gets to her. It could be she's afraid that if you stop liking her in "that way" you'll also lose interest in being friends with her. You know you wouldn't, but maybe she doesn't. I think you 2 need to sit down, and have a talk to work this out so there won't be anymore awkwardness (or mind games on her part.)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 May 2011):
Some people just like attention. A girl did this to me too - I moved on from her and left her well in the past. Don't be her doormat, and find someone who actually won't treat you like a lap dog.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 May 2011):
 Well I think that she enjoyed the attention you gave her when you liked her. Honestly I dont think she feels the same way about you, but I do think she is put out a bit now that you dont show her the same attention as you used to. If being friends with this girl is to hard maybe just take a step back and dont hang out with her as much, if she keeps fighting for your attention maybe make a joke about it to her and see how she reacts. But honestly hun dont get your hopes up because it does sound like you and this girl will be never more than friends. So just try and accept that. Good Luck.
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reader, Rebeccaa +, writes (12 May 2011):
 To me it sounds like she likes you in that way, but doesnt want to admit it, playing hard to get.
I would just not act like you like her that much and dont give her too much attention or she will just string you along. It sounds like she wants your attention but doesnt want you too think she likes you back.
Maybe when she knew you liked her before she might have been waiting to see what you did for example if you flirted with her or if you asked her out. I dont think she wanted you to be over her.
Thats just my opinion, dont get your hopes up to much.
Good luck (:
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