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anonymous
writes:Hi i have been having quite a problem. I've been having quite a problem with my penis. I've been with alot of Girls but i never have properly had sex with them because my penis is too big and every time i have tried with a girl, i mean some are very experianced if you know what i mean, but every time i end up really hurting them and they always tell me to stop and we just have oral so technically i've never had sex. I'm not stupid and i know that having something like this is supposed to be a great thing but its horrible, i'm starting to wonder if i can ever have a sexual relationship ever. For a couple of them it was the reason they broke up with me. I have no idea what to do because with my current girlfriend she really loves me and we've tried lots of ways like lubrication and all that but its no good and she's in tremendous pain. I'm at my wits end and its kills me inside to see the people i love getting hurt. PLEASE HELP!
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reader, mrvhappy +, writes (20 May 2010):
Hi,
I had a similar problem...best thing to do is use plently of lub and let her get on top so she can lower herself down on you.. that way she can control any pain.
Try to help her relax (soft music, maybe a little wine) and not rush into it..it will stop her from tensing up and making it an unpleasent experience.
Remeber its a marathon...not a sprint!!
If this doent work, get her to see her Gyne
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (20 May 2010):
 I don't know what to tell you other than to go slowly and gently. It seems like you're doing all you can, but the best thing you can do is give her body time to adjust. The vagina is made to pass a baby, so unless you're bigger around then that, you're likely not going to break her. That being said, I'm not sure what you can do other than make sure everything is lubricated, don't thrust too deep, and take it slow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): She can go to a gynecologist and get herself dilated.I had it done under anesthesia.My sex life improved a lot after a few days.Lots of Lube and different positions may help as well.You need to be really really gentle and spend hours on foreplay.
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