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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 years. We broke up for a week, he went on a date with another girl and then asked me back out. I went back out with him before I found out that he went on a date. I just recently found out and called him to break up with him because I was so hurt. Is that the right way to handle this situation?
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reader, chandra Mcmillan  +, writes (8 October 2008):
 Hun, I have to be hard to be kind.
What did you expect.
If you have been dumped friends and family tell you to just get back out there have another date take your mind of off it, If the break up was a bad one and there was somthing in his mind telling him he had lost you he might have thought this was his best option. I know it is hard if you love them to find out they have met up with someone new but he wanted to get back with you not the girl he dated so you should be happy that he wants you.
I would have told him you were not happy that he forgot you so quickly he might have told you how he was feeling and why he did it.
Ring him tell him it was a shock and you wanna see him and talk to him about it. But if you feel geleouse or paranoid dont loose it talk to him calmly.
HOPE I HAVE HELPED
GOOD LUCK
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reader, Faybelline +, writes (8 October 2008):
 I can understand that you feel upset but I don't necessarily think you needed to break up with him.
If it was just a date then I think that is forgivable; he obviously didn't want to carry anything on with this girl and it may have even been one of the factors which made him realise how much he wanted to be with you again.
I think it would have been better to talk to him about it and hear what he had to say before deciding breaking up with him again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): He prob. realized that he wanted to be with you. That the girl that he went out with was not you. I wouldn't break up with him unless he did something with her. If it was a simple date with a kiss. No big deal. You should fix the issues that caused you to break up in the first place. Communication, trust, romance, and commitment are types of things that build a relationship. If you don't discuss why you broke up then there is no communication.
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