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female
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41-50,
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writes:I am feeling quite low at the moment as I am constantly thinking about my ex-boyfriend who has gone travelling for 6 months. Just before he went we started talking again after the split and actually got it on again. He has invited me to go and see him if I want to early next year. This is all I can think about. I would do anything for this man, he is the love of my life. I feel like the past week I have been living in a kind of vacuum, wishing the time away so that I can see him again. I know this is wrong, but I cant seem to find any fun in anything without him here. He said that if things are still the same when he gets back then we can get back together. He also said he would keep in touch. I have found myself checking my emails 2/3 times per day waiting for him to contact me!I have decided to go to the gym every night, work on myself, go to the sauna and steam room, etc and look after myself.I worry that he might not want me when he gets back, but on the other hand I think "what will be will be" and if it is true love I know it will happen. I suppose I am kind of impatient, I want to know now if we will ever be together!I have not emailed him as I dont want to come across too clingy, but thought I would let him get settled in to his trip and then if he loves me and is thinking of me, he will contact me?Can anyone help me with this?
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reader, katatonik  +, writes (7 December 2008):
 I think you are right to focus on yourself in his absence. I don't just mean going to the gym and such so that you can look pretty for him when he gets back. Do things that will make you happy and help take your mind off waiting, live your life and enjoy it. Please don't close your mind to the thought of dating others, as it doesn't sound like you have a concrete commitment from this guy and he may well have changed his mind, or found someone else, six months from now. Good luck =]
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