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writes: Me and my ex broke up about 6 weeks ago on good terms. We still talk a lot but we are in different countries for the next 4 weeks.She says she feels we have drifted apart but we arranged to go away together about 2 months ago and still are.When I see here I want to show her how that I am the person she wanted me to be. I want to show her I love her but I don't know what she fell in love with about me!How can I show her how much I love her without putting pressure on her? I don't want to make our 2 weeks together uncomfortable.
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reader, kt  +, writes (7 July 2005):
 just be your self, be the person she first met and fell in love, but dont come on too strong at first!if i was you i would play hard to get, if and once she starts to flirt with you flirt back but keep her guessing, then just act like as if you were in a couple if it gets to that stage and if it gose beyond that stage ask her out again. keep goin with her untill you feel its time you got back together good look!!
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reader, NordicBeauty +, writes (7 July 2005):
If she has agreed to go on a trip with you, obviously she still cares about you.
For the first few days, just enjoy sightseeing, dinners out, music and laughter...NO ROMANCE TALK.
Let her see & feel the Magic again !
Observe her for "signals" that she is opening up more.
She may reach out & hold your hand or gaze lovingly.
One evening...set up some special romantic surprises.
Roses, a humorous romantic card, a lovely bracelet, her favourite candy, a restaurant with a water view.
Keep the talk light at first...let her delight in your gifts & surprises...she will open up more to you.
Perhaps she will be the one to start a discussion about your break up...take it from there...if you want to re-unite with her, let her know in a gentle way.
If she responds positively...keep flowing in that direction, but don't try & get her into bed too quickly.
When she is ready...you will definitely know.
If she wants only friendship...she will definitely say so!
All the best,
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reader, tp +, writes (7 July 2005):
Just be yourself. That way there is no pressure and if feelins are still there on both parts, I'm sure things will work out for the better.
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