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I like to think that experiences I have had can help others.

My parents were divorced when I was young, I have had an array of useless boyfriends - either controlling, hurtful, cheating or something! I have been engaged twice, and I have had my fair share of problems with family and friends.

I am constantly helping out my friends and family with their problems, and thought I would have a hand at sharing my thoughts a little further.

I am opinionated, completely honest and try to be as helpful and as thoughtful as I can be with the problems people have. I am a fan of tough love but I am also sympathetic, and like to think I can help people to look forward and to make the best, or take the best out of a bad situation.

I myself am now happily married, have no children, and work for a legal firm. It took me a while to build up to what I have got, and it wasnt easy. You just have to have some self faith, be strong and take deep breaths once in a while!

Claire x

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