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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I was snooping through my boyfriend of 2 years wallet (yes I know that's wrong but I was looking gore a business card he has) and I saw a condom in there. this kind of bothers me because its the kind of condoms we have put up in our bedroom but we don't use condoms , ever. finding that has me worried he is cheating or had cheated on me. he goes out to clubs A LOT and always without me... should I be suspicious ?? -sara
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reader, Kama  +, writes (6 June 2010):
 Since he's still going out without you, I would be suspicious for sure. It could be innocent, but it may not be. I'd confront him directly.
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reader, sara__m +, writes (20 May 2010):
if he "loves me so much" he shouldn't want to be prepared or have it just in case he should turn down the opportunity to have sex with another woman if he were in that situation
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reader, -____________--  +, writes (20 May 2010):
it's like a safegaurd for guys- nobody wants to be caught out by lacking a condom, it's pretty much standard procedure
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reader, ChristineAvril +, writes (20 May 2010):
 Don't remove it, as "fishdish" suggested, but put a pin through it.....?
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female
reader, fishdish +, writes (20 May 2010):
 Maybe this is too sneaky, but I'd consider taking it out of his wallet. If he doesn't mention it and you look at it again and see that again it's been replaced, I'd ask about it. Or, maybe he'll notice it's missing and ask what happened and then you two could talk about it.
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reader, SillyB +, writes (20 May 2010):
 YUP!He has it in his wallet "JUST IN CASE" he gets himself in a situation where he may need it. I used condoms with my ex. He kept a condom in his wallet "just in case" we were out and about and needed it. Once we stopped using condoms he didn't carry that condom in his wallet anymore - what was the point, he didn't need it as we were not using it. Something to think about.
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