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writes:I fell pregnant 6 months ago after me and my ex had "one last" night together, 5 weeks later i discovered i was pregnant. We talk about it and choose to keep the baby, and now the child is due in 3 months. We broke up due to the fact we never saw each other, causing arguments. We both still live together the flat we shared before we even began dating,( we've been good friends since primary school) and until the last few weeks ago i was ok with him bringing friends back but now i hear him laughing and joking with them while im in bed on a night, and i cant help but cry. I just wish i could be with him on my own, like we where, but i dont want to get back with him just because of the baby, which he has asked. He caught me crying one night when he came in and asked if i was ok, when he asked what was wrong i told him it my hormones, since then he's started to spend more time with me, serectly i think he knew why i was really crying, but from spending all this time together ive started wishing we could go back to how we where even more now, but i really dont know if it's my hormones or my true feelings.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (16 August 2007):
 Talk to him. Explain you don't know if it is your hormones or true feelings and see how things go. I'm 7 months pregnant hunni, and I know how emotional it can be. I can cry over the simpliest of things like it raining and I mean proper floods of tears. That makes me sound really sad, huh. But its perfectly normal.
A little while back I got in my head me and my partner weren't right for each other and dumped him because that is what I felt was right. It caused a lot of hurt and threw a lot of plans up int he air as we are planning on moving in together. I realised in time that it was my hormones playing me around. Luckily my guy knew it too.
You will realise in time whether it is your hormones or how you truly feel. Just don't put too much pressure on yourself to find out all the answers now. Just relax a little and enjoy the little time you have the life growing inside you.
The guy sounds like a gentleman. If you hate hearing him laugh with his mates why not ask him, when he's alone if maybe you can join whatever it is they are doing. I used to feel so left out when I went to stay with my partner (we live 80odd miles apart at the moment) and his mates came round and they would go outside and smoke and drink, but I couldn't let the fact I'm pregnant rule his life aswell.
Talk to him about how you feel, or how you think you feel. You may feel a little silly explaining all the emotions going on inside you right now, but trust me it does help LOADS!
If you want to talk more then drop me a message!
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