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*annio111
writes:My wife is doing something a bit "unusual" lately in bed and I am trying to figure it out. When I am on top, she holds 2 fingers together like a penis and starts sucking and licking them. (great so far :-)) Then she pulls my face down and kisses me while the fingers are still in her mouth and sort of goes back and forth between her tongue in my mouth and on the fingers. As she gets more turned on, she then moves her head aside and sort of “forces” the fingers in my mouth and pushes my head on them, as if she is making me give head.She always orgasms immediately and HARD as soon as she does that. She is now doing that almost every time we have sex. I am not really sure how to approach the subject …or even if I should…but I am wondering if she really wants to do this in real life?!. I don't mind her having "out there" fantasies and I think it is cool that she is kinky...but it does weird me out a bit.Do you think that this means she wants something like this in real life?Should I try to talk to her about it...or just let it ride?Women- from your perspective, what would it indicate if you did something like this in bed?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (16 December 2013):
 it indicates that she's enjoying sex with you and that's all
she may be having fantasies but that's her own personal business unless she WANTS to share it with you.
Otherwise count your blessings and carry on.
OH and sorry IT DOES NOT INDICATE she wants a MFM threesome.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (14 December 2013):
 dannio: You're getting laid, regularly.... and you are asking questions on here????? Damn, Man... get a grip. There are oodles of us, on here, who have likely forgotten what our "Mr Happy" is even supposed to be used for. Count your Blessings!!!!
Good luck....
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reader, M Proops  +, writes (14 December 2013):
She's obviously seen something for this to have come on suddenly.Does she watch internet clips?This is a new one for me.Has she suddenly become adventurous in other ways in the bedroom?
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reader, kirra07  +, writes (14 December 2013):
It could be she is fantasizing about you giving head to another man and that gets her off. It could also be that she feels in control by making you suck her fingers and that turns her on. Either way you can just mention that you noticed her doing this now and what about it turns her on. It is pretty unlikely she wants something like that to happen in real life. Fantasies are so hot because they are fantasies. They can be naughty and bad and don't involve the realities that are often a turn off.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (14 December 2013):
 Maybe she's fantasising having a penis in her mouth while you are inside her.
Does this mean she actually wants to have two guys at one time?...who knows...some women are just happy to think about it to get themselves off, doesn't mean they actually want to do it in real life.
People fantasise that their partner is someone else during sex, it's a very common thing, but it doesnt mean they would actually want to sleep with someone else.
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reader, R1 +, writes (14 December 2013):
 I don't really know! Maybe she gets turned on by having her fingers sucked. I doubt it means much really, she tried it once and liked it so she keeps doing it. Doesn't sound particularly kinky.
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