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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been dating someone for a couple of months, and a few days after our first date I asked him to have lunch with me that day - he couldn't, he was away for work that day. Then a couple of days after that I asked him to do something that weekend. Again he was busy. After that I gave up on asking him to do things, because I didn't want to sound desperate or clingy, and since then he's been asking me to do things with him 1-3 times a week and we've been having a lot of fun and getting to know each other more. Should I start asking him to things again? We're meant to be doing something this week, but haven't organised it yet and I'm not used to waiting round like this! Plus he could start thinking I'm not that interested. Surely after a couple of months I'm not going to come across as desperate, right? Reply to this Question
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reader, Your friend +, writes (14 July 2009):
 It shouldn't matter who asks who out, if you think like that then you see your relationship as some kind of chess game where there are winners and losers. Ask him out whenever you want and if he doesn't like it then you should find someone else.
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