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female
reader, Shadow Rose  +, writes (16 October 2011):
 I was told that it goes:
1. Kissing, frenching, hickeys on the neck, etc.
2. Gropage, usually to the boobs, or light petting between the legs
3. Fingering
(In my group of friends, sprinting for a home run is oral)
4. Sex :P
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reader, squirrelqueen +, writes (6 April 2009):
Around where I live, we address the bases as the "Four Fs"1) french (As in, kissing)2) feel (self explanatory)3) finger (includes oral)4) f***
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reader, cool dude 2008 +, writes (9 February 2009):
1st. kissing2nd. touching other person naked3rd. oral 4th. sex(use protection)
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reader, amazinamazon +, writes (20 August 2008):
For a different point of view, Mormon bases are:
1st holding hands
2nd kissing
3rd make out (no touching)
4th get engaged!
comparitively tame, but no one gets STD's or pregnant
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2008): oral is still sex people!!!
1st- kiss
2nd- hard core make out
3rd- getting a little touchy feely
4th- self explanitory
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reader, understood105  +, writes (29 July 2008):
i heard that the bases were different...
1st- making out
2nd- fingering, hand job
3rd-oral (eating out, blow job)
4th- sex
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): First Base : When You Make Out-That Includes French Kissing,Pecks On the Checks and Tounges.Second Base : That Includes Touching Each Other, Hands Down Each Others Pants, His Hands Up Her Shirt. Can Include Being Topless Infront Of Eachother nd Stuff Like That.Third Base:That Includes- Fingering, HandJobs,BlowJobs, and Any Other Kind Of Thing That Isn't acually sex. Also Oral SexFourth Base: Sex
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): By the full-fledged high school terms [high school is usually where this perverse game of baseball is started], here are the definitions.
First base, making out. For you old folks, that's french kissing and perhaps a little bit of "over the clothes" petting.
Second base goes a little further. That is an under the clothes feel for guys. Girls don't really play a second base, but some consider it to be massaging a male through the pants.
Third base brings us to manual and oral sex. Usually females are more likely to perform the oral, and males the manual, component on their partner, but role reversals are not out-of-bounds.
Well, if oral sex is third base, you can guess what a "homerun" is. This is also often called "fourth base". The is the end of the game, when intercourse occurs.
Hope I helped, have fun!
[And be careful!]
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008): Remember the 4 F's French Feel Finger F*ck
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2008): third base is oral and home is penis to vagina contact =]]]]]]]]
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007): lol third base is blow jobs, hand jobs, fingering, muffin munchin and evrythin in between XD
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reader, ETHAN MOYER +, writes (20 October 2007):
First Base - Kissing, Making Out, Give Her/Him A Little Tounge... Have Some Funnn
Second Base - Touchy Feely... All Over... No Where Is Off Limits... Make Out While You're At It Too...
Third Base - Blow Job, Hand Job, Fingering, Or Eating Out
Bring It On Home - Stay Safe Kid... ;D
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): third base is when a girl gives a guy a handjob or is blown.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2007): Third base=ORAL
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2007): . now in the 21st century 3rd base means A LOT more. Now it's oral back then it was french kissing!!! O.O
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2007): 3rd base is oral, well at least now in this day and age. Back then 3rd base was touchy feely in the *cough cough* and oral and intercourse were homerun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007): first base - punting the ball will defo get you there
2nd - well you better hope your jackass team mate hits the ball far enough so you can make it to the 2nd...or u can steal bases.
3rd base...once again lets hope that nancy can swing
home base - big bat big swing. big homer
oh god i love baseball lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007): I think it goes like this:
1st is kissing and making out in an easy form
2nd is making out hard core and like moving around a lot and maybe on top of each other and the guys touch the girls boobs
3rd is like guys go down stairs and touch in or out of the jeans and girls do the same
4th or course is sex...and I believe oral sex is still sex...so I am putting that in 4th base.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2007): Well I think that you guys are all right because I have been through all of that and heres how it goes
1st- making out
2nd- heavy making out along with the touching of the body parts
3rd- playing with the body parts that are "down stairs" while making out
4th- finally time to whip out those condoms and have some fun.
stay protected
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2007): 1st French2nd Finger3rd Fellatio4th f***
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2007): i asked my friend and she said 1st base is kissing. 2nd base are handjobs. third base is a bj, and home is sex
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2006): third base is definetly oral sex
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2006): Third Base mean "down stairs" touching. Some call it "fingering or being felt up. But those are just sick words.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2006): as my good friend below explains. always go by the four F's:
1.french
2.feel
3.finger
4.f**ck
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006): 1st base is when you first make out with your companion or (boy/girl)friend.first it is dry lips, then grdualy put your tounge into the others mouth and play with it foer a little bit which is 2nd base.when you feel a higher level of sexual conection and start to get into 3rd base when you start feeling on each other slowwly and intamately while stile french kissing.once he is done touching and stroaking your upper parts(breasts) you start to feel more intamate and both of you work your way down to 4th base which is slowly and sexually feeling and stroaking the penus and vagina still while french kissing.once the two are ready mentally and physically 4th base is reached they have sex and i dont have to explain that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006): "If you really want to know what it means, ask the person who used the phrase to explain what they're talking about it."
- And they'd probably reply "I'm not sure actually - I thought you'd know!" ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006): personally,third base means sexually touching each other.such as first french kissing then escalate to the male touching the females breasts and(or) vagine and the female stroaking the males penus slowly.Then it leads to 4th base,and u know what that is ,.............sexx!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006): personally,third base means sexually touching each other.such as first french kissing then escalate to the male touching the females breasts and(or) vagine and the female stroaking the males penus slowly.Then it leads to 4th base,and u know what that is ,.............sexx!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2006): First Base: Kissing
Second Base: Goin French
Third Base: Almost but not quite sex
Gettin Home! We all no what that is! hehehe
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2006): its the 4 f'sfrenchfeelfingerf**k
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2006): First Base - Making Out
Second Base - Getting a little adventurous with those wandering hands.
Third Base - I'd say nowdays third base is anything that has to do with touching your partners "down stairs"... anything and everything short of actually having sex. For some "third base" means just touching, but for the most of us nowdays it means oral!! :)
And last but not least, A Home Run! Everybody knows what that means... :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2006): 1st is kissing
2nd is touching
3rd is oral
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (13 February 2006):
 From a guys point of view, I think it pretty much means any sexual action to do with a girl's lower private area (with the exception of sex of course)!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 February 2006):
 When I was a whippersnapper:1st was kissing2nd was hand up the blouse3rd was hand down the pantsHomerun was going all the wayAll of it kinda silly isn't it?!
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (12 February 2006):
 See? This proves that there's no hard and fast rule about these vague phrases.
Back at the beginning of Time, when I was a lass, 'third base' was virtually anything sexual, short of actual, penetrative sex. That could be mutual masturbation, oral sex, and that sort of thing. But the definition changes with time, geography and social mores.
If you really want to know what it means, ask the person who used the phrase to explain what they're talking about it. Then there's no confusion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2006): oh my gosh!!! when i was growing up, third base meant making out.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2006): Giving a guy a blow job
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