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writes: what is wrong with me ?. i have just moved into my first home with my partner, i have a beautifull house a wonderfull partner a supportive family and a good career ahead of me but im so so lonely and down.i feel so lonely i have nothing to complain about my home is beautifull and i have so many friends and a great family but i feel so down. i always wanted my little house with my little car and a husband like most little girls but now i have it im still not happy.whats wrong with me its causing problems between me and my partner because ill find anything to moan about and blame him for everything i find it really hard to appriciate what i have why ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): You sound to be depressed. I got like that and there is no shame in it at all. Go along to your doctors and he will check you out. Take his advice. I did and it worked for me.
take care
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reader, blazee +, writes (20 October 2007):
heya=] um youll find that everyone has to have somethiing to worry about, even if there rlly little. but you need something, its what gives your life that litlle bit of esscence and meaning, something for you to do and concentrate on. most people in a situation as yours may cause bad things to happen so they have that balance in there life. i wouldnt worry, just try something new.. e.g having conversations with people you would have never had before, doing new things. change is never bad;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): Hi Hun,
Go to your g.p feeling like you do at the moment is not good and the more you leave it the more your going to feel bad, You have a lovely house a lovely fella and family but depression can strike at any time through no fault of your own. Having everything in the world you dream of wont change how you feel deep inside and feeling guilty because you should be happy will only make it worse see your doc ok hunny and take care LOVE MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (20 October 2007):
hi
when i read letters like your, i always say go and see your doctor, because the human body seems to take a lot of stress these day with the busy lives that we lead, most people have written back and said there ok after seeing there GP, so maybe it will be an idea for you to go,there are a thousand things that can go wrong with our body's maybe it is a simple vitamin that is missing in your system and it has put your body out of tilt, for example i went to DR felt quit out of everything, sick, tired, sleepy, bad temper, not like me the real me, DR found after blood test, very low amounts of B9 in my body, taking tabs a while now back to normal what ever that is of course,it could be that simple, why dont you try, best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): Hi there ! I know how you feel becasue I am in the same situation and I also ask myself, what's wrong with me. maybe you are just bored, maybe you two got too comfortable with each other and not doing fun and exciting things together.
Maybe you both should do little suprises for each other and just do romantic stuff with each other. If you are doing all this already, and you still feel that way, then maybe you love and care for him but you are not necessarily inlove with him. I could be wrong but these are things to consider...
Good luck
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