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writes:When a guy can't make eye contact with you, what does it mean?If i try to make eye contact with him he just looks straight ahead and wont look at me when he talks to me or he'll look at me for a split second then look down quick. Then if i'm not looking at him, he'll look right at me (I can see from the corner of my eye)Can you help me, please? Thanks! x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for all your replies :)
I do really like him, as i told him last year but then 2 months ago, my friend told him i didnt like him anymore.
But i don't think he would have taken her seriously. Her reasoning was because he'd heard some awful things about me (which were NOT true, one of them regarding me 'stalking' him) and she was just covering up for me.
I want to tell him the rumours were not true (incase he thinks they are) but i just can't seem to find the right moment. We arent exactly close either!
Clearly i need to talk to him and sort things out, but i don't know how he feels about me so i don't have a clue what to say or how to initiate the conversation.
Any advice? x
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reader, jordan888  +, writes (14 May 2009):
 All of the females are posting, how strange you haven't gotten a good answer!
HE LIIIIIIIeeeeeeEeEEXXxxx u.
the only answer even NEAR right is Gina's
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reader, jordan888 +, writes (14 May 2009):
Simple as this:
He thinks you're too good for him, and probably likes you.
If a guy talks to you like you were his friend then trust me, you're his friend, not his lover.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey :) thank you for your answers!
However, i'm not too sure about him being 'shy'. He talks to absolutely anyone! He's so easy going aswell.
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reader, bobnaomi  +, writes (14 May 2009):
He's really shy. There's this guy I absolutely hate now (for other reasons) that does that with me. My friend was talking to him this one time cuz she likes him, and asked if he liked her, to which he replied that he was just really shy around girls. But yeah trust me he's just shy, and to get him out of his shell or whatever just maintain eye contact with a small knowing smile and a raised eyebrow, and when he looks at you for a quick glance, giggle(look down then back up) and touch his arm slightly and call him cute or something (for being so shy, but just call him cute. He'll think about it all night, trying to figure out your actions). He'll probably break into a big grin. When you two can't stop smiling, mention some movie that's coming out or is out that you really really wanted to go see. Say something like, "so you busy?" or something. Seriously, with shy guys, you need to make them KNOW that you like them and make the first move. They're usually scared of rejection.hope this super detailed response helps! :D
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (13 May 2009):
it seems that he likes you very much,
but he is very shy and waiting for you to make the first move
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reader, misswalston  +, writes (13 May 2009):
 Hey, it seems like he has a lot of nervous energy going on and he doesn't know what to do with it. Try this: Stare at him for a long time and make him look at you and then when he finally looks at you, ask the question why is he so nervous to make eye contact. The staring will probably make him more nervous, but I bet you it will get a response out of him!!!! Let me know how it goes.......
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reader, lif3sucks +, writes (13 May 2009):
 well to me i think he likes you, but you never know with guys, but with alot of the guys that has liked me did the same thing..and i have done it to guys to haha sorry if this doesnt help, maybe you could try starting a conversation and see if there is anything else he does that might show he likes you.
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