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writes:i have been seeing my boyfriend for 6 years. his wife killed herself and i told him that i loved him and was in love with him. he told me that he loves me too but he is not sure if he is in love with me. he tells me everything and trusts me with his life. help me what does he mean and where do i go from here. i am so hurt. Reply to this Question
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (31 March 2010):
 Sounds as if he just wants you as a friend. Don't try to push for a relationship with this guy. If you can bear to be 'just good friends' then that is fine, if not, then it's probably time to make some distance between you.
Your already in pain over this, why give yourself more?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 March 2010):
What is means is that there is no spark. You're more like a very close friend to him, or he thinks that. That doesn't mean that the spark can't be found. You and he both need to put effort into trying to fix the relationship and really spend time together. This can be fixed, if you're both willing to really work at it.
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reader, Myrrh +, writes (31 March 2010):
 You know the difference between being in love and loving someone as you have already told him you feel both for him. Well, he feels love for you but he doesnt think hes IN love with you. Its often the way with couples. One feels more deeply than the other. But thats ok and quite normal. Being in love can be a very transitory emotion. Its easy to fall in and out of. Where as truely loving someone, warts n all, is steadfast and enduring. I wouldnt worry too much if i were you, just be happy knowing he loves you and you love him.
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