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26-29,
*ini1995
writes:I have these friend and we used to be really good friends. lately we barely talk to each other and whenever she texts me i always ignore it and whenever she talks to me i answer her in kind of a mean way and i dont really care about what she has to say i usually get bored listening to her however whenver she does something with my other friends i get jealous but i dont want to hang out with her. Why am i acting like this? Is it me or is it her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): You're behaving like a child and not long from now she will tire of your attitude and find new friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): Very little to work with little one but...I would have to say that it is you. She is your friend. Her presence is not a form of entertainment like watching TV. Well you are becoming a teen, maybe that has something to do with it, but just remember you always have a choice as so does she...and if you choose to treat her this way then it is only natural what the outcome is.
You may also have some sort of unresolved issue with you, but you didn't mention this so I rly can't say for sure.
Good Luck to you
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): hi. well first off i dnt think it is ur friends fault at all. i think it entirely falls on you. think about the last couple of months- whts changed?
friendships are just the same as relationships, sometimes they just lose their spark. but you do need to realise tht this person still regards you as a friend she can relay on, so tell her the truth, and she and you will be able to move on. if i were her i would rather know the truth than being hurt by a person i thought was my close friend. hope this helped.
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