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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (23 February 2011):
 You're 17 right? In most states the age of consent (to have sex) is 16 which means as long as you are both consenting it should be okay. I know here in Wyoming, if there is a four year difference the parents can press charges still even though the state can't so be careful with that okay.
Good luck on your journey through this crazy thing we call "life".
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): It is called statutory rape. If your parents could give you permission yo have sex no ones parents would go to jail for pimping their kids out.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (19 February 2011):
 That's good. You should still be careful because there is still a difference between 17 and 21 that you won't fully understand till you're that age yourself. Good luck.
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reader, pinkie390450 +, writes (19 February 2011):
pinkie390450 is verified as being by the original poster of the question @dirtballWe know it's illegal because I'm just a minor, but we know our laws and as long as we have the okay from my parents then we're set to go. Getting permission from my parents was the first thing we did.@largentsgirl68Thanks for all the help! Your advice really helps out a lot. At least now that I know what it means and next time I won't be afraid to ask. And he actually does like the fact that I'm not as experienced as him (: He gets to take total control and I don't mind it at all (; As long as he's happy I'm happy. (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2011): If he needs to ask he doesn't know what he's doing.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 February 2011):
17 and 21 huh? Be careful. That's illegal in most states.
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (18 February 2011):
He was asking you if you had an orgasm/if you got off. Don't be afraid to ask him a question, no matter what type of question it is. 21 yr old should at least be mature enough to handle a sexual question with maturity. FYI-most guys like to know if they're girlfriend is a little inexperienced, makes them feel more manly and protective.
Don't be afraid to ask him a question, I understand your being embarassed by having to ask (I've been there) but you never know until you ask (which is why you did ask.)
Good luck to you.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (18 February 2011):
 Im curious myself what exactly this guy is thinking.
What he asked was: did you have an orgasm.
Next time ask him what he meant. It's not stupid to ask, it's stupid to pretend to know something you don't. Which is what your boyfriend did, he thinks he knows how to make a woman orgasm when clearly he has no clue. Don't be afraid to tell him that you were nowhere close.
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reader, srhmr +, writes (18 February 2011):
"did you finish?" is another way of saying "did you cum?"
he was asking to see if that made you cum or not. if you say "yeah i finished" that would mean that you had came, or had an orgasm.
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