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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hey There, I've been having a problem and i really need your help! Basically there's this guy i've been liking on and off for a long while and only recently have we started chatting. But he can be very confusing in his signals..you see i really want to find out if he has any feelings for me at all and if not then at least i tried and i can move on. Anyway, he does come up to me and chat sometimes and i always feel wierd when i'm chatting to him like i'm not really being myself..Is that Normal? The other thing is that for instance today i happened to be walking behind him and kinda squeaked Hey and he turned and then started chatting to his mate facing me and then asked me how i was before running off..Wierd. I carried on walking and then saw him outside this shop.. i quickly said cya and was about to move on before he grabbed my arm (i think) and asked if i could help him pick an ice cream? So i pointed out some nice ones .. he picked a totally different one and then we said bye. Wierd behaviour or what! So what can you guys make of that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009): looks like the man might be shy. if you feel nervous around him you'll make him nervous too.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 September 2009):
Well it sounds like he might be interested. However, there really is only one way to be sure and that's to ask him out or something. Take your time getting to know him and see where it leads.
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reader, HereAreMyTwoCents +, writes (29 September 2009):
Ask him to hang out. See what he says. There's no way to tell how he feels, just by what you told us.
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reader, witch-fire +, writes (29 September 2009):
Yea, that guy likes you and has has really odd behaviour to show it. maybe he's not used to being around girls.
I'm going through the same thing- except my guy isn't that weird.
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